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#C27316 I need an outside perspective because I feel too emotionally involved to think clearly. I met someone a few months ago who became very important to me. From the beginning, I was hesitant. I have trust issues, and I’m 27 while he is 4 years younger than me. There is also a clear financial and social status difference between our families. I told him many times I was scared of getting attached, but he kept reassuring me, talking about trust, marriage, and a future together. Over time, we became very close. We talked every day, shared our routines, worries, slept on calls, and became part of each other’s daily lives. I slowly trusted him completely. Then suddenly everything changed. One day, without any argument, I woke up and found I had been blocked everywhere. Later I found out it was due to a misunderstanding about a joke I made, where he thought I saw him as a backup option which was never true. At that time, his family was also already pushing for his marriage, and he said his father cried and asked him to end things, so he agreed. We met in person. I swore on the Holy Book that I had been sincere from the start. He said he believed me and wasn’t thinking badly of me. He apologized repeatedly Even now, things are confusing because contact didn’t fully end. He is still messaging me. He says things like: “I know what is happening with you is wrong, but my family is not listening. They can’t see my happiness. I will never be able to be happy like this.” He talks about feeling helpless and stuck. And then, in between all of that, the normal care is still there… “Aap kaisi hain?”, “Khaana khaya?”, “Medicine li?”, updates about his day. There are still small reminders too like Snapchat streaks, and even a snap of my hair tie that he still wears, and the matching bracelets we both ordered. That’s why I’m so confused. It feels like I’m losing someone and still talking to them at the same time. I don’t know what this is anymore or where it is going. I only know I trusted someone deeply despite being scared, and this situation has been one of the most painful and confusing things I’ve experienced.