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Bruh .. you are her retirement plan 😁

Please don't marry her for the good of both. She can't stay loyal to you....you can't stop fighting with her. Think of yourself than thinking of her "uncertain" love....choose your path and move.

Usne utna hi btaya jitna tu hajam kr ske 😂😂😂

After reading the confession advice is ... Run Forrest Run... Run Like Hell... Like there's No Tomorrow...

लगता है किसी ने महाराज की बुद्धि हर ली है 😂

When in doubt, say NO.

if you accpeted the fact that she had physical relationship before, then dont bother to think how many times etc..

Ok so here is some hard truth. Your overthinking won't go away till you make peace with it. Now this is brutal and no one is gonna say this but the one who decides if you wanna stay or leave in this relationship is you and only you. You will read every answer here, some will shake you, some will make you think but deep down ask yourself the question what is the one thing that you are looking for that will satisfy your question? Once you figure out the answer to your question you will have the answer to this situation. Why am I saying this was in the exact same boat as you I battled that decision day and night for months but stayed in the relationship, i felt relieved once it was over temporarily but as the time went by her love was unmatched and her care was unmatched so yeah take your time. Hope you make the right decision ✌️

She is matured , whereas you are not. Your maturity is the problem. With experience maturity comes. Physical maturity difference you are worried about now but the difference btwn you both is mental maturity. So if you are getting a girl who is more matured, is it a bad thing. It can help you in many ways for you to get matured faster is the positive side. But if you want to look at the negative side, it's easy, any fool can give you advice and even your mind is going overboard in giving you negative moments. But allways choose ppl wiser, especially if they are honest now and if they learnt from their past.

Thank her for her honesty and end this right away. It’s not about whether she had sex or not. If multiple men have frequently been able to get close to her then it means that she craves male attention by nature. She may know it herself or may not, but she will always have eyes and ears for any attractive man around. That, is not a long term partner material, especially not for someone uninitiated in man-woman dynamics like you. Am not judging her in any way, her life her choice. But she is not meant for you bro. End this now.

Ask yourself what bothers you more, the fact that she has been physically intimate before or the fact that you haven't been. Something to ponder over. Please don't take any advise over the internet. It's your life. Own it and make your own decision. Good or Bad you are the one who has to live with it. Don't be afraid of being wrong. That's what experience is.

Either accept what she said with the fact that what she told you surely is just the tip of an iceberg..No girl with respectable character will hangout with strangers outside wine shops or roadside. Those men won't spare her without running a train at her. So, there is that.. Or, just cut it off and move on..as if she never existed. You cannot be with her and assume that nothing wrong happened.

You have to run as fast you can

Think of it this way. She could have hidden things from you like the forehead kiss, drinking with strangers on road but she shared it with you. Now it all boils down to you if u can accept it and never bring this topic again and i hope she thinks all of that was wrong which she did . If thats alligned u guys can get together and start fresh. But one word of caution, since she has been physical and u have not there could be inferiority complex to u or expectation mismatch for her. So discuss all that with her before hand. She seems like a genuine one who wants a happy life with u.

Well she felt safe and opened up with you.Every woman has a past and its both ways. What if she had past but was still a virgin? You being virgin is issue or her not being one or your insecurity. What if next girl doesnt even tell u this. And yes, she hasnt told u everything but will that matter? I think u shouldnt go ahead. U will punish her and yourself. Please tell next girl not to tell u anything as u r very pure. All the best.

Cancel all plans.. run a mile away

I can't tell you what to do, but I would've immediately ran away the moment I got to know she had a boyfriend whom she has touched in any way🌚 The rest of the details are just cherry on top. You gotta stand on a principle that aligns with your philosophy, either you don't care about these things and are ready to accept such girl, or you care about it and you can't accept such girl. There is nothing in between when it comes to a huge life decision. By the way you sound, I'm guessing you're the second type but are stuck in attachment. Just know that everytime you try to get involved with her, she won't just be thinking about you but remembering and comparing the feeling from all around💀 and this can't be reversed or undone, she'll be 'The Love' for you but you'll be just the new subject for her, so you already know what the most peaceful choice is for you. A true and pure relationship can only be formed between two pure individuals, who have no memory or experience repository of how it feels, so do what you have to 🌚

Women: Don't judge a woman by whether she is virgin or not for marriage. The story she tells for her not being virgin: She was cheated, she trusted wrong person, she was manipulated, she was in love, she thought she would marry that person, it was with just one person etc. Meanwhile the real story behind her not being virgin: x no. of "toxic" Ex's. All woman's Ex's are always somehow toxic. They are perfect angelic beings. y no. of drunk one-night stands/ hookups z no. of situationships office affairs Physical in all of the above Later when it comes to marriage: Flagbearer of Past is past, let bygones be bygones, don't judge past, virginity does not exist, men are insecure, past sexual conduct does not define character or is not tied to morality etc. Truth is past always matters. Both, men's past and women's past matter. And if a virgin guy or girl seeks a virgin partner, it is not that they are insecure, narrowminded or orthodox. Most of the times, it is simply a matter of exclusivity and values. The times we live in, even the ugliest and even the poor people have decent enough opportunities to loose their virginity prior to marriage, it has nothing to do with looks, personality (Introvert or extrovert). Even pure chhapries are getting laid. Even introvert guys or girls are getting laid prior to marriage. So, if someone has preserved themselves in such times, it is not because of lack of capability, opportunity or something. It is purely by choice, by the strength of their character, and due to strong morals and values and the belief that physical intimacy belongs within sanctity of marriage. So, if you are a virgin, never let anyone gaslight you into thinking that you are wrong, insecure, immature or whatever for seeking a partner aligned with your values and your moral framework. Keep looking for someone who aligns with your values and makes you feel comfortable within your morality. And this goes both ways. I totally believe women should also look into the past of any of their suitors. You don't know what someone's past is actually hiding and how it can come to haunt you in future.

First thing, She's telling very calculated things, there might be much more you will never find out. Girls are sharp when it comes to their past. Second, she's loving and patient because she has lived her life and now she needs to settle down with a good/successful man. There's no guarantee that the next girl you'll find will be better than her but if you're questioning yourself all the time because of her... Just end the things. It'd be better for your mental health and future.

😌😂 uska ho gya jitna hona tha

Run for sure.

How does someone even remember this many encounters???

No Seal No Deal

Know is drop and unknown is ocean. If you are ready to accept, also be ready to face a tunnel. 😛

leave her otherwise you soon will see a tattoo on her "Don't stop🤤"

You are allowed only to kiss her forehead after marriage...

American Pie Rule of 3.. but!!! .. in your case.. you need to multiply the men by 3 and assume 2 moments with each and then Take the power of 3.. She is very easy

Agyaaa mai judge karne 🤪 Full pelam paal gufaa check kr le bhai

Bro you deserve virgin. The people who opposes your demand of virginity are either non virgins or cucks. Leave her immediately even if she is telling truth about her physical intimacy

i remember one vadivelu comedy in tamil movie...she having physical with many and trying to find a scapegoat :P

Bro went to buy a brand new car and ended up buying a public transport bus 😀

You said she opened slowly about her past relationship which is a clear red sign so bro just forget about her and move on ho sakta hai wo abhi dar rahi ho aur baki sab batane me par agar shadi ke baad aise raaz na khul jaye jiski wajah se tum so bhi na paao. Aur bacha hai tumhara ya kisi aur ka isi sawal me uljhe raho, waise hi kuch nhi kara aajtak tumne, judge aur karegi man hi man wo tumhe so clear cut answer is back out now and thank god that you're safe.

Bhai yarrr fir se...fir se saare comments padhne padenge

If a girl asks something in a post, she will get 100s of DMs in an hour from opposite gender. On the other hand, if a guy asks something, he will get 0 to few DMs and mostly from guys only. So, considering the attention the women get, they'll always have more number of interactions with the opposite gender and hence more probability of being in relationship. This is the reality. Talking about virginity, you will hardly find any women who are virgin and saved themselves for marriage. Contrarily, there are way more virgin men in todays times because there're small percentage of men who are getting all the attention from women because of lot of factors like money, property, good looking etc. I am way more older than you and still virgin, so I can relate. If something is uncomfortable for you, you better not proceed with it. You'll keep digging her about her past and you will still be left in a doubt. Marry her if you feel you're okay and can accept with any number of past she has.

Everyone is not the same we all have past. Sorry you do not get to know each other first before leaping

Else everyone has past. It has nothing to do with u. U decide what makes you happy. If u r doubtful pls call of marriage. U won't be able to live happily with her.

Everyone has a past... Wrong... Not many will have past relationships, particularly physical. Post marriage incase of even small disagreements, your doubts will blow out of proportion, which is natural. Be wise and avoid.

Bro it's completely on you if you want to leave or want to marry her If your option is to marry her please share her insta id so if you face problems in future people can help you as you know she is very needy women 😐

She been honest with you and you respect it. It's your right that if you wanna marry her or not but no right to disrespect her about her past. If it's all gone so gone

She felt safe with u and open up. Love her she will not cheat you

No seal no.deal

Bro she belongs to street😅😅 In my state most gen z women are same They just wait for some feminist, virgin man then get settled. Don't be bengali man in marriage market bro

But leave her if you have doubt in her mind.

You did not mention your package?

Don't marry non virgin

So basically you are doing suicide in name of marrying this girl , all the best

She is a retired player bro And you are her Retirement plan, an Option. Just remember that

😳😳school, college, office, friends kisi ko mna nhi kiya hai....... wahhhh.... don't Marry her dude... nhi to L lag jayenge

As your elder brother, my advice : strictly don't take this forward. Almost all comments here also are of the same view. It is a bottomless pit

You should step back otherwise latter you will think God has given so many hint but you didn't listen . How come a girl is not maintaining her dignity .with one physical relationship one can understand bcz of true luv she did but so many relationships. Even if it was true luv physical relation not necessary. You should politely say no to her .

As as possible move from such chacterless girl .......I were trap in same situation.,.........

Everyone has a past, the past is called past because it’s already passed, if you keep dwelling in the past you’re never going to be happy in life, be it her or with anyone else… you’re gonna suffer and make the other person’s life hell as well. I think she deserves better. You’re just immature who can’t let go off the past

Her : Don't worry about my past meanwhile her past 🤡🤡🤡

SADLY WHEN IN DOUBT LEAVE OUT

Bro jisne bohot saare dishes taste ki hai usey ek dish roj roj khana pasand thodi aayega wo phir dusre dish try karega ya pehle kisi pasand aayi hui dish baar baar khayega aage tum khud samajdaar ho

It's alot going behind the script as well. Run as fast as you can from her.

Subhajit Paulacha

U shud fake about ur past and see how she reacts ...😂

When you cant decide answer is no

Are all these details not enough for you to understand???

give her my id. No one will know and i will not breakup

Bhai tu exit Mar.. Once a tiger had tastes human blood, he only haunts for humans.. Once a person is Comfortable in involving multiple, very hard that he will remain loyal.. Better you exit fast.. And get rid of emotions

Bhag bkl.

Shaadi ke baad aur sare raaz khulenge

I have only one word for you : “RUN”

Run Run From Ra**d

Oh don't get married to her with so much doubts ,you can't live peacefully with her . She will do everything then in the end will get married to a emaali . She drinks but still didn't had any intimacy while being drunk but what if tomorrow she really crossed her lines also women who had physical relationship often compare their husband with their ex .so if you don't reach their level that's it .she will find someone else for it .

"Paar meri sirf ek hi boyfriend thi pehle" Mardon k muh Marta aurat ko ghar lane se 3 time divorcee ko lana better hain. Jo aurat koi random mard ko boyfriend Maan k tang khol sakti hain woh toh shaadi k baad bhi yehi kar sakti hain kuch bhi uch nich ho toh kyunki character kabhi ni badalti. Jo aurat apni baap jisne usse paal pos k bda kita uska ni suun k kisi mard k baaton mein aa k unke emotional aur physical zarooraton k daasi bni unse kya rishta nibhani ka expectation? Aur aise aurat k liye hi aaj society k moral fabric aur sabse pehle unki ghar ki moral fabric loose ho jaati hain. Sirf jhut bol k khud k social image improve karne k koushish karte hain magar again, karmic effect zindagi bhar milte hain

Bai jo bit gya use bhul atleast she speaks truth pati patni ka drm nibhne k bad bdlti hai toh glt h rest decision is ur rest yha dud ka dula koi ni

cocktail

Bro don't marry her. If you don't want to ruine your peace

You want some straightforward, no-bullsh*t advice? Don't marry her.

She has enough experience to compensate both of you

Manpreet Singh Jaid

When she marries you she will found with a neighbour 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Krish Jaiswal

❌

Run Bro Run

Dm

Women ☕

Just like deepika padukone and ranveer singh... you're the only better option she has left with 😂😂...runnnnn

Run

Run & keep 🏃‍♂️...She's for the streets

Just stay away because like you told she is easily gettable girl .. even if you married she will not stop

No seal no deal bhai

I have one advice for you... Run from That RUN-D...

Run da pundamavane

Fhgh

Shadi ke baad bhi 10 aur logo se physical hogi tab laar kuchh nahi kar paoge aur 50 lakh alimony bhi doge

Just because she is showing affection and all you're thinking she is giving her 100% ?. Dude she have to act like this before marriage and once the things get done. 99% of these type of human start showing there true color. U're virgin and she isn't. Generation is doom. If u really have to accept a someone with a past. Don't accept anyone whose body count is more than 1 ( even if a women saying her body count is 1 hard to believe Coz she knows if I say 2,3 etc . That guy gonna eliminate me from marriage). Why more that 1 body count is red flag? Coz one bad experience is enough to learn lesson. They know what they was doing in their prime, whom they're sleeping , drinking with etc etc. They wanna be sooo cool. Now when it's marriage time . All of their cool friends , pull their a$$ to marry the person whom they're used to h00kup, 1 9t stand etc. Now they see gud guys as their perfect match that once they used to call " chomu, not meh standard etc etc. If u still choose to marry her. Then if things got bad in future . All the credit goes to you. Coz there's a mice waa biting to be a gud person. Gbu

Please check if she has 'Don't Stop' tattoo on her lower back or 'Cuck' tattoo on your forehead.

Bhag ja bosdike, nhi to tu khtm

Lol looser man. She will compare you with her past ex and will eventually go to them for satisfaction behind your back for sjre

You are about marry a public toilet... RIP in advance!

Past matters, that's it Dusri mil jayegi use, tu gandu mat ban

Settler mentality final boss 💀Lmtys, run for your life bro. She has more left in her bucket. You never know what's coming next, and you never wanna know I believe. Best of luck.