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Submit ConfessionGender: Female8 June 2026 at 3:35 am
#C26848 36F, mother of a 4yr old boy. My life has been a constant struggle. Starting from childhood, I have seen mental trauma at home. My parents did not have a very happy married life. I have seen constant fights at home. As a result, it took a toll on my mental health severely. I didn't do very well in my career, but I wasn't a very poor student, though. It was all due to a lack of motivation, knowledge and opportunities. The final nail in the coffin was my marriage to a man who was obsessed with his career and his parents. Apart from both the 2 he did not see anything. Somehow, God has been merciful to me, and I was blessed with a baby boy. But during his birth, I didn't get any support from my husband. Even after the birth of my child, it was my parents who held me. I thought maybe my son is the only one I could spend my life caring for. However, at every point in time, I am now being judged for my parenting for being overprotective and unusually serious towards my son. My husband blames me, saying had I been this serious in my early childhood I would have attained success in my career. To mention, i am a working professional. Salary may not be as high as his but enough for my livelihood with ease.
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You survived a difficult childhood environment. You built career and financial independent. You became a mother and raised a young child. You managed pregnancy, childbirth, and early motherhood with limited support from your husband. You continued functioning as a working professional through all of this. You have all the ability don’t depend someone who is careless or incapable. Think Peacefully you’ll find way.
See the problem is, you're not telling everything right now. You're gliding over some details and talking about others. Why are you being accused of being over protective? Explain with example. Who are accusing you?
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Take therapy for yourself first. You need support and understanding from a clinical pov too
Don't worry. You can come up easily and it is not a problem as hubby doesn't support.
Every body is judged in their life .. nobody in Life has not got judged there is not even single soul .. even Lord Rama and Lord Krishna were judged for their actions . So donot give heed to those judgements they are of no value .. If you so afraid of life and what people or your husband think about you then Some body you will find urself in mental health issues .. so hear from one ear and exit it from other ...enjoy Life ..
Pls leave with your son.