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Submit ConfessionGender: Female7 June 2026 at 2:25 am
#C27290 I need honest opinions because I'm too emotionally involved to think clearly. I met someone couple of months ago. He showed serious interest from the beginning, confessed his feelings before I did, talked about marriage, and even told his family about me. A few days ago, I finally told him "I love you." Before that, we spent the whole night talking on call. He kept saying things like he would fight for us, convince his family, wanted me to talk to my family soon, reminded me of my promise not to leave him, and said "I love you" many times. The next morning, everything seemed normal. He was sending me updates about his day, work, and even the Snapchat vlog he usually sends me. Around 4 PM, our conversation was still normal. I went to sleep for a while. When I woke up around 5 PM, I realized I had been blocked everywhere: WhatsApp, Snapchat, Instagram, everything. Later, I contacted him through another number and asked to meet. We met in person. One issue was that he had found out about a joke conversation I had with a friend and felt like I saw him as a "backup plan." I explained that it was a joke taken out of context and that I had been sincere with him from the beginning. I even swore on the Holy Book that I had never treated him as a backup plan or played games with him. He told me he did not think I was a bad person and was not misunderstanding me. However, he then said that everything was over. His main reason was family pressure. He told me his father had been crying, holding his face, and asking him to end things. He said he told his father, "Okay, whatever you say, I will do." There are also differences between us. His family is much wealthier than mine, and he is 4 years younger than me. What is confusing me is that only hours before blocking me, he was talking about fighting for us, marriage, and our future, and don't even think about leaving me, I'll do something really bad if you ever leave me and then suddenly everything changed. Do you think this sounds like someone who genuinely loved me but chose family? Or does it sound like there was something else going on? Please be honest, but kind.
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You tried to play him but instead got yourself played.😂 He definitely knew about your backup plan joke from the beginning and wanted to make you confess then end things.
Please move on. Women think and then commit, while men commit and then think. It is this difference in sequence that creates confusion in most relationships. In your case the odds are against a stable relationship. Forget this ever happened and move on.
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Tricky !!! Back up plan ... Joke out of context ... He found a reason and maybe assumed the future wnt be good and parted
My dear, it seems that he was playing with you. When you reciprocate the fake love he got scared and found a lame excuse to dump you. He is not someone ready for commitment, he is immature. Please don’t go after him, he is not worth it. Take your time, make your grief and move on..
He just listened to his father, so had to forget you...was a promise made to his father, you don't hv to take it personally, their family matter. You got affected, anyway so it didn't work, so be it; move on...
Reason for abrupt behaviour is not clear. However, its just sad the way things have been been handled. If there was age difference and family pressure, woman you should have gone slow and taken baby steps. Fall in love when families meet and things progress ( i mean should have gone slow). He is absolutely wrong to end things. We all say one should fight for love, never give up and stuff/ but do you think he is worth raging a war? If answer is yes, then fight hard, meet him again and try to convince him. Eventually he will take a stand for you and his family has to agree. If he is not worthy, time will heal things. You will find someone better. Till then take care !!!
He played you. Take this as a lesson and move on.
Not yet all, efforts do matter, don’t try to contact n try to convince yourself
Just chill n move on
Physical intimacy is missing in your story. If your boy leave u without it that means he really love his family but if .... U can understand what I mean? Every girl have backup plan in the name of 🤣 joke, 4 year age difference is also a reason to leave u
u said everything but u dint tell wat all happened between u both :P
He is immature and makes decisions in impulse. So better move on and take it as a lesson in life.
4 years younger to you? Which parent accept this proposal? It's your mistake.
MOVE ON.....rhis guyy is gutless, FaMILY ke saath nahi ladk sakta.....toh CHUTIYA hain