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#C27277 I am 32 M, I have recently connected with a 29F CA through a dating app. We have ended up talking a lot over calls and are trying to know each other. The connection is quite strong, we both feel the conversation is effortless. No one is pretending, we are talking about lot of things. Having the time of life like college kids. Which we both thought never would happen at the later stage of life. We are both scared and both come with some baggage as usual. We are talking a lot and she’s from a town in Maharashtra, currently she’s in Chennai for a Job and she commutes once every 30 days to work from home and stay in work from office and I am settled in Mumbai with my business. We are both from same caste and have a lot of things to converse about. We have decided to meet in Chennai for a fee days to understand each other. I am hesitant to say ‘I Love you’ because it seems like something you say with meaning and I feel it’s too soon. Even though the connection is great and time doesn’t matter. But Because of past experiences, I am hesitant to express. However, She expressed love yesterday and feels sure, says she is also scared. But saying, we are past the I Like you stage and I was an in an awkward state and I feel to I have to say it back. Apart from this, everything has been great and wonderful. I just don’t know if this is too early, or am I overthinking. Also, she has a good package of 22LPA, I make a decent turnover but with current economy and business in Information and Technology field, I have to make sure expenses are in control in a city like Mumbai and all savings, portfolio of assets etc. need to be managed. She plans to make money through the current job, make a substantial amount in savings and stay at home or start a practice and start a family when time comes which I am absolutely fine with, as I was a single child with both parents working. So, I know how difficult it is. With my earnings and my parents savings and assets, we can sustain living a comfortable life. I am treating her earnings and savings as backup only. With this information. Life with luxury, I am not sure, ofcourse I want to earn with my business but that’s also comes with a risk. And I am ethical, so it makes more difficult to earn a lot of money. It will take 5 years to get a stable amount of 2-3 lakhs withdrawal from it every month. She’s not high maintenance, she’s very humble and has good savings as per her age and career. Ofcourse, with time we will be able to understand more about each other. But, a lot of things align between us and our understanding and expectations match a lot. Please share your thoughts and experiences. 🙏🏻 thank you