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Being good is really good....but too good is not at all acceptable. She cheated you even after you are taking good care of her and you are true to her. As you caught her red handed, she's frustrated. Whether it's man or woman, cheating is not acceptable. It's good to warn her strictly....if she continues, better live your life.

If u cheated on ur wife will she forgive you??? Just think it what to do…

"A snake can shed it's skin but it'll always remain a Snake" Remember that... 🙂

She loved being bolted by her bed partner, and now you have taken away that pleasure. Either you are bad in bed business or she is out of love with you. Figure out which is which and act accordingly.

A fish will not be able to tell you how to fish. Aapki default settings hee sahi nhi h.

See cheating is very wrong irrespective of gender. You have to disclose her and ask for justification for that. And it's your wish whether to continue with her or not. Maybe she would have lost interest in you. We can't change people to be right.

Marriage counselling .. it's was a long distance marriage .. She has no emotional bonding with you ...Your marriage to her is only name sake .. She decided to go with you probably she thought it would be fair for her to be with you ...but some thing triggered her and it let to melt down .. So it's better you consult a relationship counsellor with some Psychiatric experience.. If she is in her perimenopause stage then She could be experiencing a major physiological changes which has effect on behaviour and mood .

Cheating is wrong..Being Married one needs to be committed to Marriage..That goes equally to women and men.If anyone loves someone from heart and care for the relationship no distance can bring anyone any third party in the bond..

File it for adultery and ask maintenance from her. This is no point of considerations

Sorry to hear about your situation but as per SC of India, it’s her wish. No court or society understands men’s emotions and all.. Cheating is ground to divorce that too if you prove beyond reasonable double and judge accepting that. Still you have pay up a lot to her 😢😢

Bro. 1. since u dint confront her, she feels more strong from inside. she feels she can continue 2. she has developed the attachment to new person. if u would have confronted her and threatned, she would have been careful. I feel she still continues 3. Talk to her not like a friend. Like a dead serious person . no begging or consoling. tell her u can tolerate anytime except this 4. in such cases women tend to make u feel u r hallucinating, mis understanding etc. they try 99% to blame u. Don't ever accept the shit. otherwise u will be a victim for others wrongs 5. talk bold, blunt without emotion and without too much drama u will not tolerate any communication with him or messages or texts.

A memory is a memory, whatever you do, it stays. And physically financially if the opposite guy is better, then you have nothing to do with it. It is all about positioning yourself, she has to feel something she lost if you are going away, if not, you have nothing to do. Let her go away

You better wait for your 60th anniversary still then don't confront her... Add your witness 😜 list and maintain a count of the instances on her affair, particularly red handedly... 🤫

Both go for counselling if she still continues the same then you are mature enough to take decision. Just forgiving won't make your marriage work

I think the affair is only one part of the problem. The bigger issue now seems to be the lack of communication between both of you. You handled the situation calmly and protected her dignity, which is commendable. However, avoiding the topic completely may have left many emotions unresolved. Instead of focusing on witnesses or blame, have an honest conversation with her about her feelings, the marriage, and what she wants for the future. If both of you are willing, marriage counseling could also help. A relationship can only be rebuilt when both partners are open and willing to work on it together.

She has lost interest in u She is more attracted to her male colleague (mentally, physically, heartedly) ur wife has forgotten that her male colleague is only using her.it is better to give her some space and time unless she knows that idiot was mis using her

Her modesty?😆🤣

You need to realise that she has cheated means she is not happy with you at the first place. As if she would be happy this should not happen. May be long distance caused it. You need to talk to her politely and understand why she did it. Ask her what she wants. Whether she wants you or him in her life. If she says she prefers him. Take mutual divorce. If she wants you then take promise this wont happen again. And if it happens again then answer is clear. Divorce. So, speak and understand. You did not react does not mean there is no problem. Good luck.

She already left you. Her act of indulging with other man hasn't happened at an instant moment. Her mind accepted it first, then her body. You can't expect love, care or dedication hereafter. She's under his influence. Though she got caught, everything will happen more carefully than earlier. 2 Option you have: 1. Longtime this extra relationship can't survive, they will seperate at any point of time. You have to wait till that 2. Try to understand or trace the whereabouts of her colleague and anonymously reveal about the relationship to her colleagues first circle relatives and family. That pressure will make him move away from her. If not immediately but definitely. As a MAN you have to be bold where you have to be.

Both of you need to hold the relationship on either side ...if you hold one end and your partner doesn't hold the other end...it's over.

How you people live in different places after marriage..I don't think it should happen for a long time, if you will create a gap other person will definitely enter in life not in wife it can be in males life..so stay close..you have only one life don't pass like Robot.. Money Cars Luxury life can give you feel for sometime..sath ne raho kam kamao chalega but understanding bani rahegi..😊👍

Take divorce move forward best of best decision.

Ignore her for few days, no contact, no money. Then confront her once, if he behaves aggressively...leave her. She's never gonna change

You are way too 'understanding '. Confront her and sort things out.

Look, men cheat only for lust. Any men in any part of the world cheat their wife only when they feel their sex-life is boaring. But a woman will cheat only when she is completely over with her husband and there is no way to return. So, it will be better for you to divorce her. She will never regret as feelings are social construction and she is not loosing her social reputation. So, take any decision rationally and not emotionally.

Just think about kids and take decision

Keep going, she started feeling bad for what she has done... 👍👍 Soon she will recover, don't talk with her till she openly talks to you about what happened. Let her decide who was better, you or her lover and let her take the decision... 👍 You have no role here, just wait and watch and if she goes back to her lover then you move on and don't look back to her because karma will definitely teach her a good lesson sooner or later.... 😏😏

Great you think far better, but if she wants to leave let her go away from you because she might continue the same wherever she is. Think twice before accepting this

Be a man. Collect evidence. Don't ever let ur wife know ur mind n thoughts. She ll already be working well in advance n keep evidences against u like harassment n stuff. Be prepared for legal issues anytime now. Her bf ll definitely instigate her. Women won't even regret killing their husband or children, for their illegal affair. Just keep distance from her hereafter. Anything you or do, will be taken as evidence against you. Women ll never advice good things to you. They ll instead, support ur wife n blame you only. Telling u again, hereafter never ever speak wat u think. Don't let ur wife, know ur mind or thought process. It's for ur own safety.

Tum sahi se loge nahi to yahi hoga na 😉 😀

Pls check the affair person is threatening ur wife.

Go for counciling to know what is in the mind and clarity

Confront her. If she prefers, give divorce. She should know, that u know. She has to decide what she wants. Don't be selfish from your side too.

Take her decision.what she expects.

Look bro yor are a charger🔋🔌 and your wife 👰 is mobile. So if 🤭 you lives away still mobile needs charging🔋⚡ so mostly this accept. In 😌 this situation girls like Bluetooth so they connect very easily. Also mans too.

Women often are repulsive towards men who lack masculine energy. Have an open conversation with her if she's even attracted to you, if she finds you lacking something vice versa. You'd be surprised how simple it is to please a woman by truly understanding what she's craving for emotionally and deeply.

Can we know wat proof u had?

Your relationship has been over for the last 5 years. Just divorce .

Collect evidence of her affairs and file for divorce. She may start planning to kill you very soon. So do it asap

It's her choice

Cheating is her way of life , so don’t act like a god by excusing her , divorce her , set her free, let her choose her own path ,

Go for couple counselling. I feel bad for you.

Sir, with all due respect, you're being treated like a door mat; have some self respect

She will continue to take you for granted.

Another blue drum will be ready

Women ? U want opinion from women on ur wife cheating? Remember, once a cheater is always a cheater. Be careful with properties and wealth u have so far

Bro simple Madam hath se nikal gai Aab door raho aur khush raho

Do you need her?

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Don't be too good

Divorce.

Bro sorry to say, but she is gone now.

Sorry, I comment here as u mention only for female She thought it's ok for u and u accept his affair coz u didnot do anything, best thing u must do that live here or leave u

Not leave her , file divorce case use the available evidences of adultery and also claim compensation and if u have enough money just use that compensation money for charity or something, ungrateful and cheating is not a thing to tolerate

Belt treatment

Now if she is acting strangely after transfer that means she has no guilt and is not regretting for what she did, and maybe she got bonded with that person the best thing would be choosing each other's path of peace. Sit and take the decision if you guys have children then you both need to decide regarding what's coming next. Otherwise this will get bitter.

Forgiveness is best punishment. Looking she's not faithful and cheating you. Tell her everything and if want to continue with apology forgive her. And if not leave her. Don't make hell of yours.

First inform her male colleague family. They will take care.

If she is caught "it's your fault that u didn't gave time, importance, u didn't gave attention etc etc " If some how u get caught" it's obvious that it's your fault "...

You have already lost her!! By the way, very poor english!

Leave her and enjoy your life without guilt and let her enjoy hers. Don't meddle into her affairs anymore and just ask her to divorce you mutually.

This cheating if she should have been in your place, whether she should have accepted. Definitely not.

Brother it is too late 🫩 sorry , forget n move on .Life is a lesson 🙏

Pl speak to her, cheating is something which we would not able adjust n believe that person will be good in future..we don't really know what is there in her mind and heart, If she wants to depart then you both decide.

She seems to have developed a fascination for the guy,with whom you caught her red handed.probably both of you should lead your respective lives.

Maybe she fell in love with someone else when you were apart Just divorce her and let her go before it festers and turns ugly

Iss kalyug mein kaha se peda ho gayi aap jaisi mahan atma🙏🙄🥹

Cheating should be completely non-negotiable in a relationship. You don't just cheat accidentally. It takes multiple steps and if your SO manages to go that route, the relationship is already a lie. You should forgive them and let them go. If they say they want to change, they can change with their next SO.

Bro....She gone far away....She is attached to new man now...dont waste your life and time and take divorce and live peacefully

Aha, you are seeking advice from women. Good luck 😉

"just pull her hair " thats all.

Check your testosterone level

High probablity seek divorce with those evidence as proof of adultary, before she files dowry and domestic violance case against you. It is better to act fast than ending up in blue drum

Bhai galti ho jati hai lekin aisi galti ke bad akad batmmezi sahi nhi ..bcoz phir wo aise cont rahegi.. Isliye if she admits n polite ok.. Else Lil give space n decide ..don't act quickly give time

Go for a vacation with your wife. Enjoy and go and visit family at least 1 a week if possible, or at least 3,4 month go and stay with family for at least few days

Self respect is chasing you, but you’re faster.

Hoga aisa hi dono bahr rh rhe ho sath m rho ...

Would have made video

Run

u can be good but being too good to a person kind of ur wife is not good...tell her u knw everything and see her reaction then teach her what she has to learn

To continue in such a situation it seems you love her more than your life respect and dignity.But Alass! She will never recognise that. Better to ask her for divorce and end up with her.

All are good.. But thr silence after that only allowed her to proceed.. Some. Matters to be disucssed explicitly with the consewuences otherwsie it may return to you as a weapon... Not too late. Plan for a meeting with all of thr senior most of family with witness collectively and dispose it... Necessity of this shall be disucssed privately... Two thre cases turn to disaster due to this so called ailent sexret forgiveness

So you hasn't left her yet, which means you trying to get some benefit from her

Kese cuck log hai yarr

Women memebrs really.. These women will support the bitches.. N make u feel guilty

Give her number i think cheating is a habit to her ..let me console her.... that 38 yr old lady

Ask divorce and move on... Once cheating is always cheating

You caught her red-handed and still treated her like nothing happened. No wonder she takes you for granted. Understanding your wife doesn't mean volunteering to be her doormat. Forgiveness is admirable, but when it's handed out unconditionally, people start seeing it as weakness instead of grace. Maybe it's time to stop proving how much you can tolerate and start proving that your self-respect has a limit

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Divorce!

belt treatment

Divorce

, once cheater always cheater

With my personal experience I am telling you leave her asap. Otherwise she will ruin your future. Same thing happened with me back in 2018 when I caught her red handed and today I am divorced losing money and everything. I also pardoned her not only once but four times. In return I got fake cases landed in Police station, Mahila aayog for crime which I didn't did.

Women hate those men who forgive them for their affairs. She will never respect you. Days are not far when she will file cases against you of DV and dowry harassment.

U must stay away from her n seek divorce.

They will not comment here it’s your wife(women) fault . Accountability word doesn’t exist In there dictionary.

Divorce

Don’t be a coward, ever. But don’t be a fool either. Gather all the evidence. Confront both of them. File for divorce citing adultery. Once a whore, always a whole. They don’t change. Same is true for men who cheat on their wife.