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Everyone in the comments is not getting the point behind the post. Everyone should enjoy their own company and I agree with it wholeheartedly. But humans are social creatures by nature. We need others' company, their validation, their love and it's completely fine in wanting that. This world is very cruel to people like us and they won't understand the pain .

Your alone life is same as mine but with less guilt.

You are still young bro...earn as much as u can try to make some hobbies...no harm in going alone to restro, travel..tbh I would have live life to the Fullest if I had the same money, age etc like u. only if I didn't fell in the love trap...just kidding 😂

vo sb bhi preshan he h n till d very last parents or 1 or 2 of ur frnds will stay so thik h sb ghoom fir k tumhari stage pr aayenge tum abhi se ho think it like dt..

What did you do during your college and school days? I think you missed all the opportunities to make friends. Now that you are in the corporate world, you cannot find friends; all these people are your competitors. If you find someone genuine, you are lucky. Try to enjoy your own company. Don't think that because you don't have friends, you can't enjoy your life. In the end, everyone needs to enjoy their own company. Go for sports, the gym, and other physical activities where you can find friends.

16lpa and sad??? Bro world tour karlo

I can understand why you feel this way. Loneliness is difficult, especially when it seems like everyone around you has a strong social circle, a partner, or people to spend special moments with. That said, I don't think the problem is that you have "no one" in the world. You clearly have parents who care about you, which is something many people unfortunately don't have. The bigger issue seems to be that you're missing connections with people your own age, friends, a partner, or a community where you feel valued and included. One thing I'd gently challenge is the idea that everyone else is happy and surrounded by people. A lot of people who look socially successful from the outside are also struggling with loneliness, failed relationships, or feeling disconnected. We usually only see the highlights of other people's lives. It's also worth recognizing that the people who use you for money, mock you for being single, or make fun of your caste are not friends. Losing such people may actually be better than keeping them around just to avoid being alone. Your parents are right about one thing, staying home all the time will probably make the loneliness feel worse. Going out won't magically create friendships, but friendships are much more likely to happen when you're regularly involved in activities, communities, hobbies, sports, volunteering, classes, or social groups. You got 10+ matches on dating apps, which suggests that the issue isn't that you're unattractive or unwanted. Dating apps often lead to ghosting for almost everyone. It's frustrating, but it shouldn't be taken as proof that something is wrong with you. I think what you're missing most isn't a girlfriend, it's a sense of belonging. A partner can help, but one person can't solve loneliness by themselves. Building friendships, finding communities, and creating a life that doesn't revolve around waiting for someone to arrive is usually a more sustainable solution. I genuinely hope things improve for you. And yes, if someone has good friends, supportive family, or a loving partner, they should appreciate them. Those relationships are easy to take for granted until they're gone.

Think why - work on your personality, hobbies and interests to connect with people…marriage won’t end loneliness

Try joining some fb groups n make friends online. Then meet them in person after interacting with them for a while. Build your circle slowly. There still are many good people in this world. Love n respect yourself first. Only then will others love u..all the best..

Get some hobbies to do. Even if you're a beginner, hitting the gym, playing badminton, chess clubs etc you'll get to see like minded people over there. Go on solo trips to famous destinations and stay in the dormitory sure you'll find good friends.

Yes join some trekking groups, gymming, remain active - if you have any passion - do that, may be learn a new skill or musical instrument.

Identify what your passion is apart from work. If you have any passion for any anything start and build a business/hobby/social work. Get deeply involved in that. Eventually you will get to know lot of people who have the same passion as yours and your circle of acquaintance widens. Do social work, go for temples, go to gym, yoga centers, join travel groups or do anything than just being at office/home

Start playing sports, go to gym... Make yourself busy with your hobbies

Go alone bro I have no friends either but that doesnt stop me from living my life book that solo trip go to that restaurant you have been wanting to go watch that movie you want. Solo travel especially changes you in lot more ways.The loneliness doesn’t disappear overnight but you stop waiting for people to show up before you start living you have already got the one thing most people use as an excuse which is money. Use it for yourself.

No little bro, You are Strong. You may have a bad Friendship circle, that doesn't mean you should feel that way. Good thing you know their true faces. Come to Delhi if you can, we can be friends and hang out if you want too, life is Beautiful with or without People in your life. I still don't have the balls to go to a restaurant or movie theatre alone. Be strong and keep going on

Isme kya tension lene wali baat hai. Ye to mera case hai sirf age thodi badha de. 2 3 saal..and if you don't like the company of friends who deliberately makes fun of only you then f**k them. Duniya me bina dost ke bhi log rehte hi hai.. nothing big deal. Nd shukr manao atleast you have your parents by your side. Dost kuch kaam ke nhi hote sachhi me batau until unless tumhare paas paisa hai. Those who show off friendship are never showed up when needed. To chill raho.. jyada reality k liye DM kro. Akele raho moz kro agr paise hai to

Join Inner engineering course of Isha Foundation, or Join courses of Sri Sri ravishankars and see magic in a month

Where you from?

https://youtu.be/LrnAOTd_HUs?si=-6IKKt6RszF-uzkI Watch this. You will get your answers

Go for a easy trek if you like mountains

You should go for arrange marriage and get married..Your loneliness will end in that way 🙂

Oh man u reminded me of myself been facing the issue from school life until now

Try to find about 'Nichiren Buddhism'. I am sure there will be a group practising near you. Please find out about the practice. It will surely help.

Solo travel

We are so alike bro. Enjoy your time being a loner. Do a lot of solo trips. Create your own stories.

Ask ur parents to arrange one girl for u and get married.

You must be the most Happiest person in this world

School college friends?

Visit Sikkim bro n tour the entire tourist destinations of Sikkim

No friends means u don't want to mk friends or u expect more from people Try to b candid Try to mk friends Don't expect much but don't be fooled urself Hv seen people who take initiative, de r very familiar in their own wY n quickly mk friends Be talkative, Try to involve, single smile can work Not all r money. Minded or bad

Bro you are way ahead only in LPA but way way behind everything else that's it... Men have to master everything

Please enjoy with yourself.

2.6 lpa mein kya hi milega voh alg bat hai 26 lpa likd dia h

Miserliness drives people away while generosity strengthens love and friendship.if you has blessed with wealth be generous and spend on others with an open heart. Do not keep calculating who spends on you and who does not rather give with good intentions. Then you will see how relationships grow and how you can truly enjoy happy moments with your friends

Hit gym bro…😎

Join some hobbies groupbro

You are finding faults in everyone means it's your mistake..you are not comfortable with them so you feel lonely even though you are with people. You should enjoy with other people.. anyways get married and enjoy life with her.

Bro chill out just go out try new hobbies

If you need someone to listen ping me !!! We can connect!!

Have some hobbies man. Paint, sing, work out, click pictures, new an instrument. There's more to life. I am 29 and being a woman I barely go out. Hobbies and upskilling is the key

Mera itna salary rehta toh akele he mauz kaat ta

Maybe Marry a woman whoz husband is no more, it might work out if u have good karma, go vegan n increase your luck

Bro you are too young, it's long way to go One day you will also get a good and honest partner Dont be depressed It is better to be called single than a devoce Ok Just chill and enjoy life

Mera to same situation hai or itna LPA bhi nhi hai to kyaa kru me marrr jau!?

Open a profile on matrimonial sites and post your salary there You will get flooded with gold diggers and will no longer remain single after 6 months

Solo trips

Ye same cheez tune Berozgaar rehte huye boli hoti to mujhe thodi sympathy aati post padhke.😏

If u r genuine , do ping me ....

Actually how to post here?

Why do people post their salary package in confession?

Dm me

Go for trek.. enjoy

text me imo

Hey bro dm me I'll help you in communication you won't get ghosted.

Bro u sounded like me absolutely me when i was 25. Bro, ye exact situation mere saath thi. Aaj bhi yaad hai mjhe kuch instances where expense share krne waali baat se relate kr paa rha hu. Bro I am 34 now single my lpa is very good got 3 income sources but for women you just need to be socially calibrated. If you need any help dm me. You just lost confidence in urself because no one close had confidence in u. I can tell you dont respect urself thats why people are not respecting you. You never had no boundaries thats why people played u. These things i have fixed. First step leave them and delete their numbers and starting meditating. Take a gym membership, jo unhone kiya usko Indhan means fuel banao aur kuch bano. Fir woh log kisi din dikhenge zaroor us din tumhara ek level hona chahiye. Aur haan ye Insta,FB, whatsapp post dosti ya dik tootne wale mat lagana aur galat hi dikhoge. Khatarnaak ek word hai woh bano. Akela feel kare toh call kr lio bro no worries. Kuch karna mat maa ksam hai tjhe bro MUMMY DADDY KA SOCHNA.

Everyone saying hobbies and gyms can go fuck yourself. Humans are social beings and there is absolutely no replacement for that.

stop being a loser stop judging people and you will find your match soon