#C27257 30F. My first relationship started when I was 25 years old. My boyfriend (29M) was a nice, kind-hearted, and handsome man. He had almost everything a woman could dream of in a partner. The only things I struggled with were his financial situation and the fact that I did not like his family. Despite that, I stayed with him because I loved him, and he treated me exceptionally well. Even today, he behaves kindly toward me. After being together for more 3+ years, I became close to someone I had always admired and fantasized about. He is a successful, well-established, and respected man (34M). While I was still in my relationship, I began talking to him and eventually developed feelings for him. In doing so, I cheated on my boyfriend. As my connection with this new man grew stronger, I ended my previous relationship. This new man is also a good person, but he has anger issues and sometimes treats me in ways that hurt me. But, I have fallen for him as well. Part of the reason I am with him is because he offers the kind of financial and life stability I have always wanted. At the same time, I miss my ex boyfriend. I feel the only major thing missing in our relationship is financial stability. I wonder now if made the wrong choice. Should I continue with my current relationship, or should I try to go back to my ex? But it is me who cheated on him. Yet I feel he would probably be happiest if we were together again. To make things more confusing, my current boyfriend has recently started treating me very well and trusts me deeply, much like my ex did. I feel torn between my choices. What should I do? P. S: Open to criticism.
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Paise se ladki ka pyaar kharida jaa sakta hai ๐ฏ. Hence proved . Money is everything
At 29 30 every individual is mature enough to make their own decisions and face consequences accordingly.. suggestion would be reasonable if someone was below 25 and wasnโt mature enough to think long term.
Halka Mon โ Your Safe Space To Be Heard
Whatโs wrong with earning on your own? As long as you depend on others, this situation will never end. And honestly, donโt expect people to stay with you for long if you carry this kind of mentality.
Marry the rich.. Get divorced.. Then marry ur first BF.... Or just get both to marry you n hav 3some everyday.. All 3 happy
Leave both the guys and don't date any guy. You will spare a lot of trauma and ensure guys are emotionally safe.
How about you follow โBe Your Own Sugar Daddyโ concept and if possible be for someone else as well.
pls wait there is someone else who will come into ur life which will make u feel better and be with him for 6months then again the story will continue with another one who will look better...keep going keep on going :P
Get 1 more guy for bed pleasure Get 1 more NRI guy for abroad vacations Enjoy 4 men. Marry obedient men.
Hence proved Nice and well behaved guy always looses the girl.
You are right in moving ahead to financial security. If you stay back, your ex won't move up in life and you will suffer with him along with your feelings which is not wrong at all. We all want improvement and better opportunities in life. Money is more important in love as love makes expenses special. Without money, love has no such special thing or charm. By leaving him you will do best in life to him. It will give him opportunity to rethink what he should do to be financially better. At the same time you have given enough time for improvements. Moreover, if you are unhappy he won't be happy in life. In that case, you will hurt him further for your present regretful thinking. So leave for happiness and good luck for both of you.
Try odd and even dates with both BF, and see if that works or intermittently try the third one
Seek third person above 40 he will be well settled including financial, more obedient to you, enjoy and write again here to have opinions between 3 persons, that also we are ready to hear too
You build your own financial stability..and spare both ..
Aourat ko chiye kya Ik belt aur 2 time treatment Thats all
The choice is entirely yours but my only suggestion is do not date two men at the same time. If you are double timing it's really wrong. If you are in a good relationship but seek a new one then something is wrong. Life always gives choices does it mean you can keep changing your boyfriends. That's not a healthy attitude. Imagine you get married and get attracted to someone with a better financial position so you will leave your husband?
You need enough money to live, so the second option is balanced โ
You should know that you might have destroyed a person's entire life.
Hence proved. You are best unless she finds someone better ๐๐
Hey girl, I know you definitely read all the comments. Can you tell me how you cut off your ex? How did you do that?
Try to chase new one. Who knows he may owns flight it would be a better future and financial stability. ๐ ๐คฃ๐คฃ boys are ๐คก , Now I agree money play's ultimate even in relationship. ๐ฅฒ
Thts why i support dowry ..tht too be in crores... If girl want to c the financial stability of men ..in the same way men should also look towards the financial stability of women ...baki ya mohabbat kch nhi ha ...paise hai toh kch v hoskta ha. ...
But the problem is with you inside. If you find new bf who is better than current bf without anger issues. You will definitely cheat on current bf also. It continues till your desires die. You mind says current bf and heart says ex bf.
If u loved the first person u would never be in love with the second one. Although a lot of people will criticise u , what u feel is human and is seen many times in this world. Go for second person
If you truly loved him, there wouldn't have been reasons to walk away. If money was the problem, you could have faced it together, worked hard, and become successful together instead of letting it tear you apart.
You don't know what you want and at this point it's best to stay single until you almost certainly know what you want from a relationship. Talk to someone you know and get some clarity about your situation.
ye gb road ke confession yaha kyu post ho re hai๐๐
Message to both your boyfriends: She was never yours, it was only your turn.
Focus on financial and stability.dont listen to men comment.
You should keep oscillating and show duality of macroscopic matter
You actually deserve one more..
Money it is... Rest everything of Myth.
You have to shift your home to Sonagachi in Kolkata
You left someone pure for money and status โ and that was your biggest mistake. Material things fade, but a heart that loved you unconditionally is irreplaceable. That door is now closed forever. And if you think about going back โ that is not love, that is double betrayal. You left for greed, do not return for convenience. They deserve better than being your backup plan.
Please ๐ leave both, they deserve a good gf not you.
Do not go to your ex.... Don't destroy his life. He deserves good partner.
You are that person who is behind running person, this is psychological . We always likes who hates us or which is impossible to get
next another businessman will be seen who is richer than the 2nd one, then 4th will be richer than 3rd one....better to check if Adani's son is bachelor, because i know mukesh ambani's both sons are married....If it is true love then you both should strive to work together and improve your finances since I agree that financial stability is required but to leave one for another because of money is not love, but opportunism. google and check if adani's son is bachelor
Stay with your current boyfriend. Your ex deserves better
Please leave both the guys and stop opening your legs for every guy.
Don't worry your ex will earn adequate money so that you can regret in future!! The majority of females are inclined towards money only they can get other things from other men... Emotions, sex, etc but money is at the top!! You seems part of majority
Cheat both of them for 3rd who should be perfect man, in all aspects.๐ Repeat until u get the perfect person ๐
Ultra modern independent women, very proudly asking for suggestions
what do you do to make money? do you work.? IT? Non-IT? business woman? do you know your problem? you don't fall for Men. you call for money. you look for finances. you don't look for anything called emotions or feelings. You just fall for money. Before asking suggestions, think about how much do you make !
Cheat till u get the best man...
Gold Digger
Go for another... While keep doz in loop.... Who knows d future... May b next 1 has got it all wid no anger issues
Take a walk on a street. Because that's where you belong.
เฎเฎคเฏเฎเฏเฎเฏ เฎ เฎจเฏเฎค เฎชเฎฐเฏเฎคเฏเฎคเฏ เฎฎเฏเฎเฏเฎเฏเฎฏ เฎเฏเฎเฏเฎฉเฏเฎฒเฎฟเฎฏเฏ เฎตเฏเฎเฏเฎเฎฟเฎฐเฏเฎเฏเฎเฎฒเฎพเฎฎเฏเฎฒ...
Hoeflation
Hraam ka khana ki aadat h tuma
Over here in this group.. 90% posts are about women cheating with other men or extra marital affairs. 1 note for you Please Try to understand the difference between necessity and luxury
Bhai ye sab sach hota hai ya made stories hote bc? Itna gendu koi kaise ho sakta hai bc
You are a true Nation builder as per Supreme Court judges....
For women ultimately money matters ๐ they don't have their own credibility ๐
Look sister, marry the rich guy, take his money and then divorce him, then settle with the old bf. Road clear no chap. If old bf treats you badly, blue drum hai na....chil bro
Try one more
Don't settle for less; try again for a new better one ๐๐
Enna kandravi kadhai idhu ๐๐คฃ
Try a third one
Just continue ur relationship with these 2 folks for few more days or weeks until u get another better choice with wealth and โค๏ธ. All the bes.
I think you should move on..time for a financially more sound person than your current one now. One should be fluid in her relationships ๐
Certified r*ndi oops ramdi ๐ฃ
You can never be with one person ever youโre like a swinging pendulum, yes money is important and woman do marry guys with great financial success, but remember Money canโt buy you True Love, True emotinal exchange, or spiritual exchange and growth You cheated once and you can do that again, stop justifying your reasoning for cheating, leave your ex alone and donโt spoil his life, because he might never be able to move on and trust me Karma will make you pay ๐ฐ one day
Mtlb kuchh bhi post kr dena hai reach k liye๐
Ungala mari ponungala pakurapo engaluku mrg aasaiye poiduchu๐๐๐
RED FLAG ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉEX BOYFRIEND IS LUCKY
Madam u r grass hopper, donโt feel bad , tomorrow if u find 3, 4th person U will try them too . So please forgive mens please
Tum ek Bhn ke L*ri ho!
Leave him alone. That's enough.
That guy deserves better.
Enga erukeenga madam.. Inbix vanaga konjam
Aadmi ke badle bas insaan **
Ladkiya always acche ki talash me hoti hai
Kabir Singh 2nd part?
Stay Witt the current one and forget about your ex
leave both .. find someone new. you will be disatisfied with anyone you meet and they will be both disappointed and angry . For their peace and your own, leave.
Now that u hv made a choice stick to it , I DONT THINK UR EX BOYFRIEND WILL TAKE U BACK
There's always an Option C ๐
didi wait 1 more year, u will develop strong feelings for someone else....
You're a toy ๐ They're puppets ๐
Pls leave that early Guy as soon as pose, he deserve good life
Better solution Divide your night/ day time
Paise ka chkkr babu bhaiya paisa...
So once a b is always a b ๐
Its one way journey
Chee
Rich menโs wives cheat out of inattention; poor menโs wives cheat for financial stability; good menโs wives cheat out of curiosity; bad menโs wives cheat out of revenge; nerdsโ wives cheat due to poor communication; and good communicatorsโ wives cheat for fun. I have encountered all of these scenarios. Nature never gives everything to everyone; marry whoever aligns with your preferences, but never cheat or spoil someoneโs life
Isko dogla panti bolte hain ๐๐๐๐๐
U will get better third boyfriend and choose him
Dudharu cow ki ek to lat sahni padti hai financially stabity matters mam..wdout that life hell
Find 3rd option!
Grab as much money as u can from current bf then go back to the ex
Lalach aaha lap lap
Try another one again , Itโs boring. The third one will give some masala in the story
Y can't u try something new
Heal sister you need healing ๐
she is like my ex. digger
Money matters here no feelings ๐
You deserve no men
Go to sonagachi