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Submit ConfessionGender: Female4 June 2026 at 12:02 pm
#C27250 26 F I was in a relationship for 5 years. My partner had cheated me multiple times in the past but I was too attached to leave him but slowly something shifted. I wanted an escape from him. I met a colleague of mine and we instantly bonded and eventually got involved in a physical relationship as well. He knew about my boyfriend. He cared for me and did everything to make me happy . My then boyfriend he cheated me once again and this time, I left him for good. This colleague of mine changed after my breakup. He stopped physical contact totally and started ignoring me. I never had any friends and this behaviour of his totally crushed me . He says he loves me but avoids me. It's been 9 months , we haven't been intimate. He never picks up my calls . He replies to my messages after 3/4 days and I don't know what to do. I am in a stage of life where I want to settle. But his behaviour has kept me in a dilemma. In last 6 months, we have talked on call for only 3 times. He only talks to me when he needs money. And when I asked him if he has someone else in mind or want to breakup, he tells me that I am overthinking. I am confused. I really love him. I constantly make efforts for him, gift him things he loves. But he never does anything for me. If I don't text him first, he never does. I feel like I am stuck in a loop where I constantly tell myself that I should stay away from him but end up texting and pleading, begging him to treat me right and he never does. I feel suicidal.
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Both of them didn't love u. Accept the simple fact. Don't be in a dilemma. 2nd one also took the opportunity to get what he got already. Use ur mind, not heart. Everyone has heartbreak.
do the same with him stop giving so much attention start pretending like you dont care if he truly love you he will come back otherwise move on which is better for you
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Just take it as a lesson. The good thing is that it happened before marriage. You don't have any liabilities. Move on. And from now onwards you will be more mature, more alert, more cautious.
I feel he is cheating someone, i understand you wer hurt and sinking in a rut, but when u come out of a relationahip , the worst mistake it to jump on another .... you should have taken time for yourself .... the other guy showed sympathy till he got in your pants and money ..... if he has gaps in replies and being on n off .... something you got to think abt , Please dnt jump on a another shoulder to cry , pls dnt fall for some sympathy .... get urself right and have patience
Dono he cheater ho you and your ex, 3rd party to fayda utha liya
He was using you, as long as your were in relalationship with yiur bf, he just had to enjoy your body and not take care for your emotional needs But now you are not in relationship with your bf then he need to take your emotaional needs he needs to love you and he do not want to do that. If your get into relationship with anyother boy, he will come back again will enjoy your body again. And your bf also do not love you. Both of them used your for your body only.
What you did is monkey-branching and what he did is "situationship" where he's an opportunist ... So advice is you have 2 choices either get your head in place don't sleep around with people and focus on yourself, be alone unless the right person comes along or you can continue going down this path of doom chasing love and be used and abused. Choose wisely
Nobody wants the liability. Its good when the other boy carries the responsibility. Now if he will sleep with you, u will want to marry...which the boy dont want! Very simple!
See choose who cares for u who gives time for no ine is busy if the other person done behaves like this Niote: can i get any job passed in 2024 still not getting any job life uf full of disturbing monents madam getting sucide al thats day by day
sugar mommy route
Accept reality and move on, make new friends, explore new places, adopt some new habits, try to learn some new skills in life. And If you just want to talk, you can talk to me.
Why the f is suicidal? Who does suicide for another person that doesn't even cares you
Classic gullible behaviour...
Can you ping me I will support u I m from small town ok
Confusion for what? He contact u when he need money? He don't want to settle wid u, he only intimate wid u that time when u r commited to other one, it's a big red flag bcoz he already knew that u r bell of his neck in future
You're not his first choice nor a priority in his life. Stop romanticising him and see him for the selfish bastard he is.
It is very clear that he is using you for money. He doesn’t care for you or will marry you. You are an easy target to con man. Seek therapy, get help. The world is beautiful and not worth sacrificing for one horrible thief.
Why bother about a man who is avoiding you? Next time please dont get involved in physical relationships. Hope you took the HPV vaccine in your childhood