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Submit ConfessionGender: Male2 June 2026 at 11:57 pm
#C27244 I am 30,M, doctor,working in a metropolitan city in west bengal.In January of this year I met a 30, F, psychologist,also working in the same city through a dating app. We started dating and things were going well until I tried asking her about her past as by this time I felt both of us were serious and committed enough to each other to think about marriage.Interestingly enough even after giving her full liberty about asking me about my past,she never asked anything.However when I started asking , initially she became defensive,saying it was distressing to talk about her past and she doesn't want to talk about it.I kept quiet for a while to maintain peace and I was busy with some other work too.Then one fine day I came to know that just 15days prior to our first date,she had gone on a 2 day trip with some guy.When asked about it,she initially lied. I said I know the truth,she kept lying that she had gone with her friend.It was only upon me showing her evidence that she finally agreed to having gone to a trip with that guy.She told me that they were "casual friends", they rode around the city on his bike,went on dates for atleast 3-4 months,went on a trip.But when asked if they had become intimate she firmly said that they hadn't done anything.When asked why,she said that she had set boundaries beforehand ( i e ni touching/kissing/etc) and also that she came to find out that he was married when they went on the trip.She claims to have been using the guy for free dates and hangouts,but I have a feeling that she got used too for sex .Also, in the begining of our relationship she said she was asexual and inexperienced.However she was exceptionally fluid and instinctive and comfortable while we got intimate,0 hesitation.In fact me being a guy will admit that no other girl I've been with in the past has ever asked me to do anal,but she is the first one who has asked me for it.Apart from all this there are also other factions of her story that seem sketchy too.She has no friends except one girl who also seems to be suffering from a botched marriage,i.e divorced/seperated.In fact my girlfriend claims that the guy she went on a trip with was initially introduced by her friend only.Despite me trying to communicate with her and trying to be very open and non-judgmental of of anything,she keeps insisting that they have never even kissed once.I just want to know from you guys if you think I'm a fool for thinking that I'm a rebound,that she is a pathological liar,serial dater,asex addict.am I the safe option for settling after she has had "casual" fun?Or is it that she hasjust has her emotional guards up and doesn't feel comfortable enough to share stuff with me?If so,how can I get her to honestly open up in front of me?Or should I just break it off completely?
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She is the red forest. Run or Ruin your life
If she is good psychologist then she know how not to share the information until she wants .. Dangerous personality - psychologists and woman ...
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I guess you are bengali.. just run! Dourao bhai.. flags gulo laal khub bhalo bhabe bojha jachche!
If you want commitment, just leave her if you want to enjoy , continue with her.
She is trying to manipulate you, bro. You are almost 30. Don't you know pattern recognition? Ask many questions at a time. If she hesitates or takes time to respond, or argues with you instead of giving a clear response, please run away from her.
Tui nije ki bhai!
Just keep dating with her. One fine day she’ll reveal herself and your number/position in her life 😀. But till then please be patience
Imagine If u show a photograph of her with that boyfriend WTP position " " she will be like in the basis of humanity I just done some CPR to that guy you're too judgemental"
Look here. Past is past. Present and future matters
I think you need good decision management sessions before getting married or anything serious like that. Despite being a doctor and at this age in life you have no idea where the lie and who should be removed from life..
Stay away fromheebrotver
U are dating a psycho not a psychologist
Sahi kataa!
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Aajkal ke laundo kya hogaya hai... Kha k phekne wale chiz ku sambhalne k kosish karte hai or jisey sambhal k rakhna hai usey fekne ke chakkar me 🤦🏻♂️ Mann bhudhhi chomdu
Bro what you expect woman from west Bengal Just multiple by 5 what ever she say if she Beutiful. In my state if you don't have high body count like 20+ as a woman, feminist community can't accept as a feminist. Higher body count mandatory is part of Woman empowerment in west bengal If you doing extra marital affair and cheat with husband It's peak achievement of Feminist from west Bengal brother
Follow your instincts and definitely wait. Get a detective if you want. Better to be safe than sorry. Marriage is for keeps.
And in the comments some bengali girls have come to defend their sis.. it's strange how wrong doings are justified in the guise of women empowerment
Run before she asks for pegging
If you have doubts....leave her. Why make life so complicated.
This page is pathetic. Full of perverts. Stories must be fabricated. Makes me feel like throwing up. Finally unfollowing the page. Not suitable for middle aged housewives like me. Finally I remember that more than 30 years ago my mother told me that she would never select a groom for me who was in medical profession. Simply disgusting!
The comments here are just so judgemental! As though you guys are saints!
Average Kolkata/WB Story , why are you so surprised 😂
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She isnt a red flag. She is a red billboard. Run.
Smash a couple of more times and fuck off.
Red flag bro...leave asap...don't ask anything just LEAVE HER
Anal ? Bruh better run
Better leave her...she is not pribably match for you..probably she wants sex ileven if u dont marry..then she ll find someone else. Just forget her...
Are u really doctor? I guess u need counselling only intimate sex sux question bengali mindset everyone has liberty in medical profession people are not psycho like u first do counselling urself frm good psychologist