#C27235 F , 27 I have been in a relationship with a person for the past five years. He is very understanding and supportive, but he has faced many family-related challenges in his life. Because of those issues, he could not complete his college education. He tried preparing for government jobs for some time, and later moved into a private job, working hard to settle his life and build a stable future. On my side, I am not from a financially wealthy family, but I have a stable job. We are now planning to move towards marriage. However, I am worried about whether his family will accept me. Although they are financially more stable than my family, they already have some grievances towards him because of past family issues. At the same time, many of his relatives are supportive of our relationship. I do not own a house, and I am still trying to improve my financial situation and build a better life. I often worry whether factors such as not owning a house or financial differences between our families could create problems when it comes to marriage. I also wonder how I will handle all these challenges. Since my parents are financially and physically weak, I may have to manage most of the marriage expenses on my own. Despite all these concerns, one thing gives me happiness and confidence: he is genuinely supportive and always prioritizes my well-being. He never judges me based on financial status or external circumstances. Still, I live with a constant fear about the future, family acceptance, and financial responsibilities. I am also planning to switch jobs for a better package so that I can improve my situation further. How can I overcome these fears and approach this phase of life with more confidence?
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Live in the present.
You must be a M & not F. Females don't worry much about having a house, thinking about financial strength (if opp side is higher). U just want F perspective or maybe a broader sense of understanding about this.
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These genuine fears of any human being . Thinking about Future and fears arise .. But some things one needs to keep with the Future .. what's there in Future nobody can say not even God himself .. That's what Gita says .. So believe in God and when The time comes it will fall at place .. Surrender is word .. Surrender yourself .. Fear is not going to bring any peace .. It's hell of fire and you will loose your mind ..
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