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Submit ConfessionGender: Female31 May 2026 at 10:06 pm
#C27223 Hi friends I don’t know where to start my mom passed away by taking her life herself in 2021. My dad was not well Becoz of his diabetic issue I need to take him hospital often and I am married my native is Tamil Nadu and me and my husband living in Bangalore so I try my best to manage. Somehow we managed Covid.during Covid I was with my mom for 7 seven months so happily after I left I don’t know what happen one day my dad went to hospital for his treatment she took her life. Now let me tell abt my mom she is not doing from childhood she have issue with psychological. She will cry and say don’t want to live many time she left the house we will search and bring her home. Always I was with her from all place if we go I will hold her hand like child. Childhood I hate her becoz I was immature all will look different on her some use to say in front of my eyes she is mental I fight with them. Before this happen I told my dad to take her with him when he go to hospital and told book cab and go. He want to save 900 ripped he locked main gate and left. All happen now my main pblm now I have no emotion to my dad now I go also I don’t feel anything towards him I feel he is responsible for my mom condition if he took her that day our life will different now. During Covid my mom become everything to me I saw like my child. Now every small pblm my mind is going to my mom and house no more feel. Please help me o don’t know why I am treating my dad like that I tried many time but no nothing changed
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As I read your story, one thing stands out, you loved your mother deeply. You describe holding her hand everywhere, protecting her when people mocked her, That kind of caregiving creates a very strong bond. What you’re feeling toward your father does not sound unusual. Even if another part of you knows your mother had struggled for many years had serious psychological difficulties. Don’t listen what people says you do anything people have their opinion.
Trust me she is in better place, my mother in law had same issue I managed her for 10 years and when she passed away I went to depression for several years and then now when I look back that was the best thing god gave her peace .. you know rather than living in this world with so much pain it’s better for her to leave this world make sure this should not come to your child .. but unfortunately my son is autistic just like my mother in law.. so I suggest you please move on and get a therapy Sweety.. :)
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You were 'parentified' child. You need counseling. Rinzen Sawakhande recommended. https://www.facebook.com/rinzen.sawakhande?mibextid=ZbWKwL
Once ur dad will die then u will cry for him so its better to take care of him
Heal yourself..it's all fate..ur mom time was up..why blame dad alone.. He must be a victim living with your mom entire life right.. consider dad
So sorry this happened. Obviously this is all took much for a person to handle. You definitely need therapy. Please seek counselling with a good psychiatrist and take care of yourself
Sorry to hear about your mom .bit here your dad is not at fault . Take counselling and psychiatric help to get this thoughts out of your mind . It will only create rift .
Sorry to hear..cannot blame him for what happened. You should forget and move on..take care of him