#C27216 "I’m a 32‑year‑old woman, divorced, and recently joined company as an HR professional. Life has been about starting fresh, but I find myself caught in unexpected feelings. I have a crush on my senior at work. He’s married, and I know that makes things complicated. Still, I can’t deny how much I admire him and how strongly I feel drawn to him. Every interaction leaves me wondering if I should say something or just keep these emotions locked inside. I don’t know how to approach him, and maybe I shouldn’t at all. But writing this here is my way of admitting what I feel — even if it’s just to let it out. Sometimes, liking someone isn’t about expecting anything back; it’s just about being honest with yourself.
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How to let people know why you got divorced without telling why you got divorced!
You are making the same mistake twice ...🤕😬
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Don't admire married guy. Knowingly or unknowingly you are ruining one family. There are a lot of single guys available. You can admire them. Just ignore like grapes are sour 🤣🫣
So since you have admiration, will you forget he has a wife and you about to destroy 2 life, but no you just can't control 😆.... Just move on girl
We are drawn to some people Because there is something in them We like to be. It's the energy mainly. And itsokay to have such emotions Intelligence is not running behind it. And don't get involved With a married man is the golden rule.
Beta Liking some one is ok . But going ahead and telling him is not right as he is married. U can chat admire him all day in office no issues nothing beyond that naughty girl. 😉 You know how men are Secondly if both cross the line thinking no one is watching don't forget everything is recorded by the universe and karma hits back hard. If He was single or divorced Then it would have been a different thing. But that's not the case So let him focus on his wife and marriage.
Don't ruin his life, he is married and not divorced
If ur marriage dosnt wrk out means dont spoil others ok if same thngs ur hubby do means u will say many stores here
तलाक की वजह बताए बिना, तलाक की वजह समझा देना। 🤡
He won't mind bed relations but you shouldn't expect more than that.
Are tham ja bhai, abhi to thara divorce hua hai ab ke uska bhi divorce kara ke manegi ke 😂😂 Just wondering 🤔
My boat sank it's time for you.. 🤣
Means Posh lagwake shadi ka offer dogi 😂😂
Go ahead mam. See you are a well empowered self independent lady . Top of the icing you are in HR. So do whatever u wish. Furthermore Indian law is completely with you 👌
I know that makes things complicated? If the person being married is a mere complication in your way to approach him, that shows how much you value relationships. If it's just a complication for you, and you get married to him by some miracle, then someone else will see you as a mere complication in their way.
Do you want to embark on a home wreck?
Mat kar ek or married life khrab!
Just ask him for coffe @ then proose him
Don’t spoil there marriage..
You will find other men who’s good for you for marriage. Better concentrate on such man and get your life also sorted.
Apna ghar toh gaya, dusron ka kyun bache ?
Mam - You are the PROBLEM - Home wrecker
It is natural for a divorced person to develop feelings for someone of the opposite sex. Loneliness, emotional vulnerability, unmet companionship needs, or attraction to qualities that align with one's expectations of a partner can all contribute to such emotions. Perhaps this particular senior has been especially compassionate, supportive, or attentive towards you. However, it is also important to recognise that some people may intentionally blur emotional boundaries to gauge whether the other person is receptive to a deeper relationship. This can sometimes lead to emotional confusion or mixed signals. If you find yourself returning that attention by being more caring or attentive, proceed with caution. Observe whether the interest is genuine and respectful rather than making assumptions. Consider the possible consequences before becoming emotionally involved, particularly in a workplace setting. Relationships in professional environments can become complicated and may affect your reputation, emotional wellbeing, and even your career if matters do not work out as expected. You should also be realistic about the situation. If the person is unable or unwilling to offer commitment, you could end up in a relationship with no clear future, leaving you feeling hurt, used, or disappointed. Ultimately, the decision is yours, and it is your future that is at stake. Take time to reflect on what you truly want, set clear boundaries, and avoid making decisions based solely on temporary emotions or attraction. Focus on your own wellbeing, maintain your self-respect, and choose the path that aligns with your values and long-term happiness.
U will ruin his life as he is married and loose ur job as well 🙄
Do you want to be independent and have a job?? If you do, then keep it professional and to yourself and also if you value his family.
You’ll end up loosing up because you’ll gain nothing in the end, loose your job, respect dignity, and spoil your seniors marriage life, find the Right person for yourself even if you have to wait endlessly because good things don’t come easily
Your marriage failed, why interfere in others? Let them live, if you have a crush keep it to yourself but don’t spoil others life. If you both do something his wife will curse you for life.
You're divorced and don't make his wife life unpleasant.
Pl dont ruin his marriage and family
Supreme court has told adultery is fine so I guess you need more body count just make it one timer 😉
No, don't spoil a married lives
Don't approach him.. He is married
Women very proud of your honesty but again think about his wife and kids why do you want to be a house breaker and want that woman to go though everything what you went through you know how it feels and you know the pain also so delebratly you want them to suffer? Your feelings is just a infatuation or might be lust keep your feelings within you and just move on don't make a mess of his family life
I dont know what to suggest ..when the one in recieving end sound stupid...we often get attracted to people but why need to get them involved in it specifically when he is married .. you need a new spouse ..arrange one or ask your parents to do so ..you are like a climber always need someone to be happy
As an HR representative, you are expected to uphold professional standards and workplace ethics, not have an affair with a coworker.
Simple you are spoiling his wife life that's all if you want love someone who doesn't married or divorce but don't broken beautiful family okay
good... stop it here itself.. if needed come again and vent here as much as you but don't jump into him...
You may like or wish for many things in life. That doesn't mean that you can have all of them. So just keep certain likes upto yourself and move ahead. As you move on, you may get attracted to many such people, but if they already have a committed life of their own, then just think of it as a fantasy and focus on building your life. You have much better things to do rather than complicating your own and others lives.
Es se better hoga ping me 33 ka hu unmarried hu usk chkkr m kaha fas rhi ho tum usk liy use and throw Hi rhogi ok
Just smile he approach you WAIT AND WATCH
Why can't u ask the question to his wife directly?
Without any commitments (not married, divorced), such feelings are natural. Just a suggestion: for enjoyment, try to find a boy/men who have similar mindset as yours. Why spoil someone else's life.
And used chatgpt for this 😭
One of my friend is there in Hyderabad he is divorce if u marry then everything will set right.....
Let him stay happy in his life and don't take curse of her wife/family! How can you do this, i don't know, just remember karma has power
So basically since your life is pissed off you can't see anyone else being happily married. Right? And you want to be the reason he leave his wife for someone who is already broken socially. Are you really matured woman? Get a life
Ping me, will suggest you some good plan..
There's nothing wrong with asking him out for something casual... I just wish he'd not cheat his wife with you rather politely decline your offer even though its just casual 🫴🏻
hope u want to be promoted quickly :P
Remember that you are going to destroy a family. Pls dont ruin the family. It's a sin. Karma will never leave you. Try to control your emotions. Go to temple. Distract yourself. Help people.
Hope you didn't type this confession with one hand while the other hand was...
Apna ghar ujaad ke dusre ka bhi ujaadne chali. Inssan he ki dayan?
Pls don’t spoil another family !
Come inbox
He is married don't destroy his life pls u stay away or u can others choose ur life.....I can't say comment right now .....pls don't.....
It ll lead to future unhappiness and loss of oeace bt gives trmporary pleasure..which one do u want? How ll u react if somebodg has relationship with ur husband? Dont spoil a family for your lust
Vinash kale viprit buddi Jai siya Ram
Do you have any job vacancy
Y r HR?? Have you hear something about POSH??
Don’t shit where you eat
How foolish of you to think to break someone’s home?. Is it fair? Knock your conscience. You are having a rebound effect.
She's on the verge of spoiling one's home with her sick mentality that's lust my dear
Rule 1: window shopping karni hai toh dekh or nikl Rule 2: Window shopping per nikli hai free sample ya complimentary free me mil raha utha use Krle or fekde. Yeh chomdu ke drama na kar
Bet in two weeks he will make u his bitch and u ll be swallowing his cum
Spoiled your family and now trying to spoil someonelse family .how cheap
Go on, have him because that's what you desire, ruin his married life, get him divorced, thus perfectly balanced both ways, then go for another married man. Lack of morality is with you
Fk him who cares
Keep your emHOEtions to yourself
Go ahead you already spoil a man now move to another man
That’s why you got divorce?
Give him a blow job day and night 2 times without fail . You will get promoted and then give blow job to your new manager 😜😜😹😹😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Go and ask him to fuck you He will accept your offer
Surpnakha banke ram me pass mat jaao isee becho ram Krishna dharti le aake dhero gyan de chuke hsi uska palan karo