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At age of 32 u must tack a stand for your self do discussion with them if happened then do argument also give them threaten bindas bol do me hu to sab ku6 he

Can't do much to deal with such toxic parents...they won't change no matter how much u do for them. From what I have been through n still going through, I understood that money matters a lot. I could swear on anything if u fucking earn hell lot of money or atleast u can afford a lifestyle which u could actually show off half of the problems will be solved. For now ur mental health is most imp pls take care of urself try to be away from them as much as possible it will open up ur mind n give u some or the other ways to cope up with it

Changing the job will not help nor work from home. Change the city/state. This way you will stay far from the toxic environment.

if you are doctor and You feeling numb and still You cannot diagnose urself ... Then believe me you should do your medicine again ... being doctor , You should numbness in emotions means - Parasympathetic nervous system has broken down and systematically attacking the sympathetic nervous system ... So simple explaination is get your self a check from neuropsychiatrist and get into a CBT .

Get yourself a separate place to stay . Life is short ..stay away from toxicity

Set some boundaries. Tell them what u r feeling. Speak with them. If they didn't understand try to live separately. That's the only way

Medical profession means

Feel safe to say what you've got inside and just be clear in one thing that you're capable enough to take care of yourself at least.

Hi, As a 28-year-old doctor, single mother to a son and daughter of a narcissistic mother, the hardest lesson I've learned is that no achievement, sacrifice, or amount of love will make them love you the way you deserve. Stop chasing their approval. Stop waiting for them to understand your pain or apologize for what they did. Most of the time, that moment never comes. Instead, protect your peace. Set boundaries. Focus on your own life. What many people don't realize is that having narcissistic parents affects every part of your life, including your relationships and even your children if you don't break the cycle. In fact, becoming a parent can make the pain even deeper because you realize how naturally love comes to you, and you wonder why they couldn't do the same for you. You are your own rescue. Good luck!

Change city/state/country. And go NO/LOW contact with them.

Just leave. You are an adult. There is no other solution

Just get married and MASALAM your mother. Make your own family and be happy. Just ensure to give everything to your daughters. Which you always intend!

You're not alone in feeling emotionally neglected by family . Just because people have family doesnt mean they're lives are filled with love and care . Its perfectly normal to feel low when living with people u dont get along with . For now avoid confrontations , people dont change at this point of life , focus on ur health and wellbeing , make like minded friends and spend quality time away from home every day , even if its 15 minutes . If u need a certified counsellor, whatsapp me +91 9819850818

I'm also medical profession

R u male or female

Go to work and earn some money stable. And give it to your mom. All the crap will stop. There's no work from home in medical industry. If U R stressed. Go to Thailand bang some girls and come back