#C27195 I am 32F. Got married in 2020. Ours is a love come arranged marriage. Both of us work in corporate and earn around 27lpa. We have a 4.5yrs old son. My mother-in-law passed away 7months after my marriage when I was 6months pregnant with my kid which created huge trauma for me. My husband, FIL and my parents took care of me and supported me in all ways hiding their grief and helped me to come out of it. After demise of my MIL, me, my husband, FIL and kid lived separately. My FIL was doing business before my marriage and it got loss and so he stopped it and was at home after marriage. We were covering all his expenses starting from soap, brush, medicines etc. I thought him like my own father and did everything to him. Even when me and my husband go out, we will take him along with us since he should not feel lonely. He don't know cooking and even if its simple item. He will do only small help like drying clothes, sometimes take care of our kid when we are working. But he was a great moral support for us. In 2025, we bought a own house. Since my mom got health issues that time i had to tc of her and after long time of covincing, my parents also shifted with us. From that time things were going fine between all of us even though small fights will be there. This April, I got lumbar disc prolapse and I was admitted in the hospital for traction, pain mgmt and physio. But nothing worked out. So, I underwent caudal epidural steroid injections and pheripheral pain blockers. After the procedure, as Sedative and local anaesthesia was also included in injection, below hips it got numb. I couldn't feel anything and I was also in semi conscious state when I was shifted to my room from OT. My mom did not come to hosp as she has to tc of kid. At that time, my hus left me with my FIL and went to buy something. Thinking that I am totally not having conscious, my FIL MOLESTED me which i have not even thought in my dreams. Since I was semi conscious and areas below hip were numb I couldn't move my body and oppose it. Once my husband came, I told him everything crying and he consoled me not to cry and relax since I am already physically so weak and exhausted. From that till discharge, we did not speak a word to my FIL. Once home, my hus confronted him where he accepted everything and apologized. But my hus warned him like he should not even dare to see or come near me and asked him to go for a job and financially tc of him. We will not do anything to him unless its an emergency. We couldn't throw him out of house fearing about family prestige and legacy. But I told everything to my parents and they were very angry like they will beat him with slippers and throw him out but I convinced them and they are silent now seeing my hus face. Even now I am not able to take it up and used to cry to my husb. I am also getting panic attacks when sleeping. My hus and parents are remaining as pillar of support taking care of my physical and mental health. Even now my FIL has not realized anything and cooly getting up at 10am, again having nap at 1pm, eating and playing cards in mobile. 2 days back, he requested us to send him money stating that he is having nothing for his survial and not getting job due to his age. My hus again warned him that this is the last time and gave him small money for his medicines. What should we do now? Should we financially back him up or should we let him go so that he shou ld realize the blunder he has done? Very confused.
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Sometimes I wonder if this is real or just a way to boost reach. I actually read the exact same story a couple of weeks back..
Send him to old age home n pay for his stay instead of directly giving him money for survival.
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I think some monthly allowance is necessary... Which can be given.....
Can't trust you, need to hear his side of story too.
Why repeat telecast for this post ?
Old age home bhej do ...baby ki safty ke liye bol rahi hoon ...jo tumhare sath hua wo baby ke sath nahi hoga iski kya gurntee h
Don't help him,he don't deserve that
There is monthly allowance and medical attention in jail. Record his confession and put him in jail
Perform his nikkah with any poor widow and let them leave seperately and give financial support.
Send him to old age home where he gets food. Support meager amount for medicine. He should feel for his guilty.
File a case against him
Jail m inka acha tc hoga
Shouldn’t you go to police?
If it's true then definitely a crime and really concerning...but don't know why posting again and again.... don't spread hate there is already a lot of going on in society.
Financially back him up and let him go.
Hand him over to police . He will have nice time in jail with inmates. You are keeping cobra with you
How that lpa can you lep me for a small job madam
Send your FIL to old age home
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Such incidences happen.Forget n move on.l have been molested by my close relative n there is nothing l can do about it
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What way to get reach of this page. I hope if this so called bollywood style story is not real.then this thing first to be done with owner of this page.
This post is repeatedly posted 2nd or 3rd time
Chi....
He used to get everything, but after molesting he lost everything the respect which you people gave them,nurture them,taking care like own father,he lost respect,money,self -respect from you and your husband..
Yes report him to police and they provide food and medical assistance
Repost again, I saw this post last month now again posted 1day back, Why??
Give some monthly allowance that's it
Why were you traumatised by your MIL's death? That doesn't make sense. Your own husband wasn't traumatised by his mom's death but you were? Or are you a drama queen who does things for attention? Either way, if your FIL is a molestor then put a case on him and send him to jail. He will be well taken care of there. Forget about what others will think because they are not living your life.
Report to the police. He will be molesting other woman too. Please report him and save other women
Send him back to India
He molested you???? And you are here writing a post???? Are you a woman ?
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I think you should have published it in the national media news stream or on notice board or any sign board in your colony instead of telling everything to your parents ...and sometimes old people they do not know exactly what they are doing in that moment his father should get monthly allowance from bastards son like your husband and you are the cause of everything
Let him beg in the streets