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Submit ConfessionGender: Female29 May 2026 at 1:50 am
#C27191 F 26 , 4 Lpa , Kolkata Hey guys so I am kinda struck in a dilemma and I would really like some suggestions So I have never really had a boyfriend till now. I have been in an all girls school and college. Even the company where I work and my field of study is 99% female dominated. So I really had no Idea of how dating and relationships work. Now my marriage has been fixed with this guy , he works at a PSU company , His father is a Scientist and his mother is a businesswoman. His father and my father are really good friends and this proposal has been given by his father only. Now this guy is very good looking , he is so good looking that even a beautiful girl will feel insecure and honestly I am very average when It comes to looks. But its ok , I earn and I don't really thinks his looks will make me insecure. What is bothering me is his family secrecy. Its rumored that they are filthy rich , his mother's business has turnover of crores and his father owns multiple foreign research patents. Its all a rumor btw. When I met the guy I kinda tested his boundaries and It surprised me a little when he became avoidant and defensive when his family finances were brought up. It was like he didnt want to talk about It. Now I am brought up in a very transparent family and both my parents know everything about me. He is hiding a lot I can feel. What should I do ???? Should I go ahead or change my path
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Why should he tell someone family finances in the initial days? I am finding your intentions fishy trying to explore too much financial info about his family.
You're an outsider as of now why you want to know about how they manage their finances what they own ? Planning to divorce him with hefty alimony?
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4 Lpa... And she earns, so she doesn't feel insecure from a good looking millionaire. Bye bye
These filthy rich ppl have many secrets...don't discuss finance...find out if it's from the correct source...koi problem m na par jao👍🏻
Byomkesh bakshi ki poti ho kya
Just trust your self, go with your gutt feeling, only.
Obviously he's doubting you are interested in his family wealth & not in him or a future together! Your curiosity about his family property triggered him to doubt u are like those girls who marry just to get a divorce for huge alimony & that's why you r trying to fathom his wealth so that u can chalk out the amount of alimony u can demand. And how do u expect a man to disclose all information about his family property to a person who is not even a family member as yet. Is he crazy? 😂
You don't know what happened next! Everything has been written so relax and just pray to God!
Just hire a good private Detective to investigate what you want to know beta.
It's seems she is so independent out in 4 LPA package she wanted to know everything the boy has, before filling a 498 A and Divorce on him so before doing all of that she wanted to know everything about the guy family inheritance.... Just wait guys you will hear a news out of it soon 😂 😂. She is already having inferiority complex as she is finding a handsome hunk as a husband first she will make his life hell coz she is independent and earning 4 Lpa and then I have wrote her other plan above. 😂😂 Man god save the guy family.
who are you asking someone's wealth? Has he asked about your family wealth?
Just so you know, international patent doesn't mean it will bring money.
If he is showing avoidant characters then it's better to avoid him permanently
Just hire private detective
We don't read confession if salary is less than 40 LPA
Probably he thinks that you are a secret informer for income tax and enforcement directorate
If ur genuine. It seems fishy. Find out what are their expectations from u after marriage. Go by the detective suggestion.
hirw professional detective and know the reality
Pls try to get more information about the family by hiring an detective agency as the entire inner secrets will be shared only between you nd your family and there is going to be total secrecy maintained.
To hide, one must have first.
PSU... Rich Dad... hmm...Maybe his family was in cahoots with the local TMC Party (Bad TMC, bhaipo and pisi one)... Then they're afraid that they might get egg'd and called as "Chor" aka thief... That's why they're avoiding all conversations regarding finances...So next time you have a conversation on finance bring this up and say "File Chor, File Chor" or say "Hamba hamba, ramba ramba, kamba kamba, doomba doomba, boomba boomba, bamba bamba, Dustu Goru" see his reaction, if it's suspicious then run like Hell... The entire family will be egg'd and in jail soon... If it's of surprise and awe... Then you're safe... If still in doubt hire a detective... 🙂
So the only things you want to transparent about wealth , wow How can you expect someone to share their financial and family wealth in the very early days??
He did the appropriate thing.Smarty.
Outsider hoke uske finances puchoge to avoid he karega na baklol 😂
Pls don't post anything if your CTC is below 60L🤣
Pehli meeting m hi sab bata de wo? Baaki gain his trust and he will let you know. He might be afraid that if things don't work out you will loot away everything during divorce. So I think it's good that he didn't tell anything.
You already messed up so anyways it's gone. So better be transparent to him about why you asked about this. That is your best chance of handling this problem.
All the focus seems to be on material entities and aspects. Sad.
He is absolutely right,! Why do you want to know about his finances? Are you marrying hkk for his money,??? If yes, please spare him....at least have that much respect for your dad's friend ship with his dad. They say 'daayan bhi saat ghar chhodti hai" so please consider his house from within those 7 houses to be spared. Shame on you and your dirty mindset
You maargaara **rita
why do you want to know about him and his family finances ?? to calculate how much money you can extract ?? better work and contribute ...
In your best interest you should not pursue this marriage