#C27182 Hie i got married 8 years back within 3 months of marriage he hit me for the first time and then it continued not on regular basis but whenever argument happened he always use to put me down make me feel small never valued me i always wanted to step out of this marriage but somewhere he always manipulated me and convinced me and then finally one day he hitted me infront of his mother and behaved like nothing happened i came back home filed for divorce and then someone came into my life calm sorted healed me like anything but now again my ex is trying to manipulate me and wants me to give one last chance what should I do
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Going back is like you were left hungry, someone else fed you and after full stomach you want to go back again.!!
Someone healed you like anything but you are still thinking of taking a sidetrack?
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Plz plz don't go back ....trust me these types of people never change ...plz save your life ....choose calm partner....
Don't even think of accepting him again, if you want peaceful life
Strict warning is needed for him. Don't melt for manipulation. Tell him strictly that physical assault is not at all tolerable and you will complain this to both the families if it continues. You also make him understand that domestic violence is punishable. Still if it continues, inform this to elders. They will definitely solve this issue. Don't suffer alone. If you hide it now from them, it will be too late to solve this.
Listen to your heart and don’t make your life suffer
Your ex is an ex for a reason. He only came crawling back once he saw someone else in your life. Put your safety first.
Don't. Some people never change
Don't give him any chance. He's again manipulating you and taking advantage of you getting convinced.
Well there are enough cases of violent husbands asking for 1 last chance and then fatally killing the wife when she is back.. I am not saying he is same .... but do you want to take the chance especially it is only you who know the intensity and brutality with which he can hit you.
Don't give him any chance. You should not tolerate physical and emotional abuse.
Need both side stories to judge..
Don't go back
The new one will also manipulate you, but jb hum Pareshan hote h to kuch log hote h time dete h samjhaate h aur apni aadat daal dete h phr ek din sab badal jata h , so acha h never be habitual of anything or anyone! Khud me khush rho agar ye seekh jaao to phr koi aaye koi jaaye aapko fark nhi pdega
Don't give him chance Ab tak nahi sudhra to aage kya sudhrega Be yourself let him cry now,don't fall into false trap
Your choice and incase your reconcile then make terms and conditions of reconciliation legally valid before entering his house again ..
Don't turn back now
Don't even think of going back if you love your life..There are lots of cases where such guys manipulate and then do the unthinkable.Be safe..your life matters.most..Dont fall into his trap again.
If you know he is manipulating dn why are you getting manipulated? What kind of advice do you want here? Just don't get manipulated if your brain is working fine...
Meet with him, hit him and come back to your current guy.
Are you mad thinking about ex.seems well educated behaving like mad.what about that who healed you in bad days
Forget the hot guy. He don't deserve.. the guy who is hitting the women is not deserves to be a human being.. therefore U move forward as U like and enjoy rest of Ur life.