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Submit ConfessionGender: Male27 May 2026 at 2:30 pm
#C27177 Hii, I'm 26 (M), currently working as an IT professional. Currently in a relationship with a girl 6 yrs younger than me studying in college. It's been few months we are committed and we both care for each other and Love each other, no doubt on that. But the thing is that, she's much more romantic than me. She reads a lots of romantic books also and sometimes imagine that kind of world also. And she expects me to reciprocate the same like to be more romantic whenever we are having a conversation or to be in the same imaginary world that she's into. Whereas me, after my all hectic day at work, try to be romantic sometimes but can't match the level that she's expecting. She even told me sometimes that also that I'm so unromantic. Can someone suggest me that what to do in this kind of situation? Is it my fault that I'm unromantic or how should I make her understand about this? Or what to do in this situation? I need some genuine suggestions on this.
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Remember that everyone's love language is different and romantic levels. You don't have to do something extraordinarily romantic because she's reading and wants you to be so romantic. Try taking baby steps like taking her out for candle light dinner, getting her a flower or flowers at times. Sometimes just watch a movie by cuddling her or holding her hands. Cook something, take her to a nice small hilltop or a beach with a lamp and eat with her. You can simple things slowly to build.
Read her romance books without letting her know and act out the scenes she find romantic that are feasible, even if you feel it's cheezy or embarrassing, atleast the private ones... It's so easy to date book girls, you literally have the syllabus with you... Hope this helps...
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It's because of her age. College time is a very wonderful period as we are not occupied with many responsibilities. Hence she is very active 😃. Once she moves to work she will be normal. So don't worry.
Neither of you is wrong here. She isn’t wrong for wanting romance, affection, and emotional expression, and you aren’t wrong for showing love in a different way after a long, exhausting day at work. Issue isn’t romance Though here but it’s expectations and communication. She needs to understand that real life isn’t always like the books she reads, and you need to understand that those romantic gestures are her way of feeling loved and valued. She should appreciate your efforts, and you should occasionally step into her romantic world
You guys are Akhandanand tripathi and Bina tripathi.
I know romance is very important to you. I may not naturally express it the same way you do, especially after work when your energy is low. But that doesn’t mean you love less. Sometimes people in college have more time and energy for long romantic conversations and imaginative scenarios than someone who has spent 9–10 hours handling work, deadlines, meetings, and responsibilities.
You also read same books.
You can't but almighty God can't make women understand... Further you got such lovely partner.. cherish her love her respect her.. not all dudes are lucky like you
you cannot make understand ... Romance is the part of her Fantasy ... Girl live their Life in fantasy of Their prince Charming as In fairy tales ... So if you want then make her feel some time special ...
Tell her to complete studies and get good job
This is the teaser for you from this relationship Hope you got the answer..
Just be tough like a man rock... And act like a barbarian in bed. Don't fall for their crap. The moment you become soft. She will find someone else
U r lucky to have this kind of girl who is pouring romantic lot.. take care of her and be more active.
The bar is so low a girl expecting her partner to be romantic is a complaint. Please leave her so that she finds a nice romantic guy. You are not compatible
some girls r stupid this way and think real life is reel . u better break up , she will stay in her bubble .