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Submit ConfessionGender: Male26 May 2026 at 9:15 am
#C27163 I am a 25-year-old male. Five years ago, I met a girl shortly after I got admission into medical college. In the beginning, we used to talk casually once in a while, but with time, our conversations became more frequent and she gradually became very emotionally attached to me. To be honest, I was not as attached initially, and there was a specific reason for that. I belong to a very strict family where love marriage is considered completely unacceptable. When I realized that she was becoming more serious about the relationship day by day, I honestly sat down with her and clearly explained my family situation to her. Her response was something I still remember. She said, “You just stay committed to me, and tell me every expectation your family has. I will try my best to become exactly the kind of person your family would want.” Since then, we have been together for the last five years. Throughout this time, she has genuinely tried her best, supported me, and respected almost everything I suggested. I truly appreciate her efforts and sincerity. Over time, I have also convinced most of my family members for her, and now they are more than happy with the idea of this relationship. She has developed very good relations with my family as well, and everyone who knows her appreciates her personality. However, there is one issue that has started to disturb me deeply. Whenever we have arguments, she sometimes becomes extremely rude in anger. Although she later realizes her mistake, apologizes sincerely, and promises to improve, this behavior still worries me a lot internally. At the same time, I should also mention that apart from these temporary moments of anger and rudeness, she is genuinely very sweet, caring, respectful, and extremely well-spoken. My biggest fear is that if this behavior continues after marriage, especially in front of my family, it could create serious disrespect and difficulties for me within my household. I genuinely want sincere advice from mature people here. Is this something I should truly be worried about before making a lifelong decision, or am I simply overthinking because of my family background and fear of future complications? Thank you.
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Have you heard of this - “ A known Devil is better than an unknown Angel”
I think u should talk to her and explain. She has changed so much for u n the family I think she will understand
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Both love your life. Even in 2026 , still you want satisfy your parents expectations.. world is shifting. Stick to the culture and traditions, but draw a strict boundaries and don’t change unnecessary things to satisfy others expectations. Live your life to the fullest and respect and grow together as a couple. Strict boundaries between couple and immediate families and extended families. No family drama.
No issues...some women before marriage behaves childish bcoz of her family..but after marriage these women change herself for her husband happiness.. Me myself change me...I was like this..but now I m totally different..now I have 2 kids also n we are happy family.. Sometimes we fight but this happens in every home .. So just chill... before marriage told her about this behaviour..she will change herself for you n your love..
Bro what u have got is a gem, the anger part is natural, don't know how you are when u get angry. May be that is something she does when she is privately with u.... So that's completely alright.....u too can get angry more than she become and become more rude than her when she becomes rude at you, this will settle her at those times.... Be one step ahead, but don't leave this relation for such a silly reason, because she is a good loyal woman, trust her be with her, she will help n supports u in every aspect.
Go for her bro. There aren't many women like these anymore.
You should talk to her before marriage..
Her outbursts are natural as she has forced herself to be in a specific way for you. I don't think you can blame her for this. If she has come all this way for you, shouldn't you also try and accommodate/work with her on some of her behavior? Please don't lose her!
Up and downs are common in our Indian society. Course of time may bring change in her. From her side there is nothing much abnormal. U can gradually convince her. It's not a serious issue. Be happy
Bro when you be with a person, you have to be with the goods and the bads both. If there was any other girl even she would have some flaws , nobody is flawless including you. And with your point of anger , you have to explain her that this thing hurts you and tell her to avoid showing anger in front of the family but you will also have to accept the fact that she behaves like that in anger. Both can sit down and talk.
Temper can be tempered by meditation and anger management sessions but a girl your family loves and you love is rare and hard to find. Don't let her go and repent later. Find ways to see what triggers her to be angry and get her out by anger management sessions.
Always remember, love yourself first. Always enjoy your company, thrive and work hard for your future. Don't kill your passion and interest for anybody. Make your money and what's going on your mind to yourself, don't show your vulnerable and weak state because people change overnight.
Every girl is like this, stay with this one.
Bedho gaya kaam say tu Kuch bhi karlo who behavior change bai hota Baad May apologies karna mazaq hai ek
Make her understand
Did you bang her in these 5 yrs?
Bro marry her 🙄🙄🙄
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