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#C27129 32, Male Story is real, but I used chatgpt to frame it properly. So this is not my story but of a 18 year old girls story who calls me her brother but we are not related by blood. About two years ago, in February 2024, we moved from our village to the city. I had bought a plot there and started building our house. While construction was underway, we rented a place in the exact same colony. Our landlord was a typical 75-year-old uncle. To give you an idea of their family setup, it’s the senior citizen couple (the uncle and aunty), their son and daughter-in-law, and their two granddaughters. Let’s call them A and B. This story is about A. She is 18. We’ve actually moved into our own completed house now, but that’s beside the point. Over those two years of renting, we formed a deep bond with this family. Eventually, we came to know all their secrets and internal dynamics. The reality is that they treat A horribly. It seems to stem from the fact that she isn't as "talented" as her sister B, and because they desperately wanted a boy when she was born. They mentally torture this girl every single day. It’s so severe that I’ve had to rush her to the doctor multiple times because of severe panic attacks. She weighs just 34 kg, and her health is physically deteriorating. Our family is her only sliver of hope; she says our house is the only place she feels safe and at home. The house is a constant warzone. Her father is a heavy drinker, a complete mess, and buried under 13 lakhs of debt. Some of the things this girl goes through would absolutely break you if you heard them firsthand. They are sick enough to call her manhoos (cursed). They even call the entire month of May cursed just because her birthday is on May 27th. Just three days ago, her father drank poison after a massive fight with his own parents. He was hospitalized and is stable now. But the entire family has blamed A for it. She had absolutely nothing to do with the fight, yet they are screaming at her, telling her she’s a curse and that this is all happening because she was born in May. Worse still, she once confided in me that her father tried to touch her inappropriately while she was sleeping—not once, but twice. I was completely numb when she told me. She had a massive panic attack the next day, and when I took her to the doctor and she explained what happened, the doctor was frozen too. A sub-inspector lives right next door to them. Like us, he looks out for her. When he found out about the abuse, he lost his temper, went over, slapped the father, and warned them that if they couldn't care for her, he would. Instead of realizing how monstrous the father's actions were, the family turned on the cop, hating him and spreading disgusting rumors about his wife’s character. A is desperate to escape this hellhole, and we are the only people she trusts. There is a mountain of abuse I haven't even mentioned—it would take a whole day to list—but if we weren't in her life, I honestly fear she might have ended her life by now. Seeing the real faces of these parents and the society around us has been an eye-opener. Even though I am the sole breadwinner for my own family, and I’ve just spent upwards of 1 crore building our home—leaving me with a 40 lakh home loan—I still desperately want to help her. I want to sponsor her graduation. Her family has zero interest in her future; they already made her drop a year after the 12th grade. Their entire focus is on B, whom they see as their "return on investment." But A is bright. If she gets a real chance, she can easily stand on her own feet and leave this nightmare behind. I’ve already started helping her step out. She picked up a part-time graphic design gig but desperately needed a laptop—something she had begged her family for, to no avail. I bought her one. Recently, she managed to earn 40,000 INR entirely on her own. The day she got paid, instead of going to her own house, she came straight to ours and handed the entire 40k to me. It was incredibly emotional. She keeps her money with us because she doesn't trust a single person under her own roof. She even insisted on giving me the first installment to pay me back for the laptop, even though I didn’t want to take it. Just today, my wife broke down crying reading the messages A sends her whenever she needs to vent. Her birthday is on May 27th, and we are planning to go over to her house to officially tell her parents and grandparents that we will cover her educational expenses. Because we live in the same neighborhood, on the exact same street, we want to handle this politely so it doesn’t look like we are aggressively interfering in their private family matters. I really need advice on how to approach this conversation properly without making things worse for her.
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Please consult a family lawyer to understand how best this can be approached. She is 18? If she can apply for colleges out of city which has a good hostel will be best or else a college in other side of town with safe, good hostel. She needs to get out of this mess. So kind of your and your family to offer her a safe space. But caution is needed when you approach the family. If 1 or 2 teacher of her's can be involved in suggesting colleges etc it will help. You should also sort your expectations from her as she grows older, she may become a different person and may like to lessen interactions. I have seen this happen. I hope she gets to study and finds a stable life for herself with your help. She needs help to empower herself to step out of this toxic zone. May God bless all of you.
She is 18..... ask her to walk out. If you go and help her they will think you as her sugar daddy and torture you and her more. She needs to stand up on her own. Pool up neighbors and help her move out. Then she can stay in a hostel and pursue her education and you can be her sos contact. She has to move out on her own. Empower her to move out. You will help her build her confidence and help her stand on her own feet. She has to start relying on herself not you not anyone else.
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Nice of you to sponsor her education .. Better would be her teacher who would like support the girl and make her family understand. Teacher understand so she can make the girls parents understand or they might take in some other way .
Maybe it’s just a coincidence but I share the same birth month n a similar story. I’ve been able to build a peaceful life for myself n I truly hope she gets the support she needs n finds her way out safely...
Hey we share birthdays! Even our stories are kinda same.. listen admit her in a college and monitor the education. Just simply convince the father. But while taking the charge of an young adult remember that you are covering her education doesn't mean that you or your family owns her. She should not feel like a charity case... And also keep the liability part in mine.. Talk to her parents clearly and if they don't agree you know how to convince rigid people...
Just do it and don't tell them. Take help to raise funds and her hostel fees. Make sure she gets her share of education. God bless you and your family.
It's good to be good. But people can always change sides. U say u will help. But set boundaries. But it's her decision ultimately To decide if she wants to walk out of the hellhole And make her life better. Never she should say I forced her. She was young She didn't know all that. It's a time where people hurt the people Who have fought battles for them.
Try convincing the family to let her get admitted in a college with hostel so that she doesn’t have to face the abuse in future.
u have done a great work....if she is 18+ then she can decide were to live and what to do on her own...just continue to give her support and encourage her so that she can live on her own...if possible give her a small room if available in ur home with ur family permission that girl will be very faithful to u...till she settle with education and job help her if possible or guide her how to get help from society.
I promise you will be rewarded by Almighty for this but since she is legal heir of them and being a girl you have b cautious Just start with You are a great family; however, ups and downs come in every family's life. Since I know you and have been with you during this difficult time, I would like to help in a small way by sponsoring the education of your daughter. I promise that I am doing this purely out of concern and goodwill, without any expectation in return. She is the legal heir of her parents, and being a young girl, her future and education deserve special attention and support. Please consider this offer as a humble contribution towards securing her future. May Almighty bless her with success, good health, and a bright future, and may He give all of us the strength to support one another in times of need.
Why tell her parents? Let her say she got scholarship and apply and study. What if they defame your family and torture her more on this behalf? Do this service in secrecy for her
Firstly kudos to your family, the SI and the neighbours on helping her. The family targeted her and keep pouring hatred. These kind of hatreds don't need any rationale, they create artificial & stupid reasons to justify their hate crimes. They get their energy in abusing her. The family is not just toxic, it's also dysfunctional. If they know her supporters, they attack them too. Don't confront directly. If you go and say, "we will support her studies". They won't agree and create more hurdles. They always try to break her support system(education, job, your family, her food, emotions, spirit). Be an invisible supporter. Let them think that her studies are supported by her earnings or some scholarships not yours. Make her super strong emotionally. If she has to stay in her house, gift her a dog, it'll take care of violence if any within the house. If the dog dies for any reason, she has to get out of her house immediately. As an immediate need, feed her to gain some weight.
That’s so compassionate and humane of you to reach put to keep a girl safe and to build her future. But her parents aren’t going to see your good intentions. They’ll only criticise you and also the girl for taking your support. Especially when they are so abusive of her. Maybe have someone else whom they look upto as a politician or someone and take their support as well. They may listen
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Make her independent somehow. Once she learns to stand on her own feet, she can manage her life, find a rented place if needed, and her family may start seeing her as an asset rather than a liability."
She can take legal measures to actually move out from her place and move into yours. You can also be her legal guardian. Find the legal ways to deal with this instead of speaking with her family
May born, I can understand..... May God bless you 🕉️
Appreciating. just for safety involve a good NGO AND ALSO neighbour police for the same.. And sent her in a safe place or PG.
First as she is 18yrs old now, ask her to create her own bank a/c and keep saving her own money. Later talk to a lawyer on how to approach this matter. Not only that if she has her own bank a/c nobody else would be able to access her hard earned money or the money you people are helping her with. Also along with education teach her some skills through which she can earn something early in her life and get herself free from this trap. Financial education is must for her and I hope you can help her with that. If needed she can start applying for group D govt jobs, if she gets one she would be able to take care of her own expenses along with her education.
May A win all the battles
I have no advice to give but.... I have a Huge admiration on what you are doing!! You, Your wife, inspector - You all are Angel to her! Keep helping her- God will help you back! Just know, Many of us are in Tears reading this! Also know- We are praying for her and praying for your family and Inspector Family too. Thank you for being a Kind Human being! 😢❤️
I never comment on strangers post bt you are literally an angel , really appreciating your efforts 👌🏻👌🏻
Same my case I wanted to escape my family but landed in a worse place
God bless you and 'A' abundantly
Amazing bro
Best wishes to A and the kind hearted person who is helping
Do whatever you can do. Don’t stop
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This is so sad man. No point in going and telling them do it in background and ask the girl to say she got admission on the basis of scholarship. I just hope everything works for her.
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Thry are capable to sponsor her career, they don't want to see her successful, if you will tell them that you want to support her career, they will target you to take revenge, insult in society, characterless running after our beloved daughter etc etc and they will torture their daughter more and more by calling her prosti etc etc. Don't create more trouble for her please. Just keep helping her without letting anyone else know. Once she starts earning enough to survive on her own, then let me know, I'll arrange space in girls pg in Delhi, total cut off from her enemies/family. Stay in touch with me, I'll find out a decent and safe girl pg for her under 8k with 3 times vegetarian meals and proper safety. She can keep working in Delhi, make some friends in pg to live happily and safely. If she wants to, I can arrange her solo travel trip to tourist places to deal with depression. Only two things are necessary to change her life 180°, income + total cut off from enemies, calling them parents or family would be blasphemy
You are an angel! Such kindness is rare.
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