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This is how extramarital attractions should be handled. Kudos lady. You saved your family I guess.

Why do people use chatgpt to write the confession 🤔????? Chatgpt eats the feel of confession 😅😅😅😅

I respect yr thoughts....Never even in a weak moment.....tell yr husband.....raat gayi baat gayi

So basically: Husband: I trust my wife completely Wife: Starts a side quest, unlocks emotional DLC, reaches final boss, gets marriage proposal, declines it, deletes save file, returns to main storyline And now after all that adventure: Dear husband, can we spend more quality time together? 😂😂😂 On a serious note, the colleague got friend-zoned after applying for the husband position, the husband has no idea he almost got replaced, and the wife came back with a renewed appreciation package. Moral of the story: communication would have been a lot cheaper than this entire Netflix season

That's why it is important to have hobbies and connection with like-minded people. Also a few close friends, so that when you need to talk about something, someone other than spouse is available to talk or vent out. Create all these things in your life. Join some classes, workshops, hobbies where you can make good healthy connections. Very few couples stay good friends for life. Rest everyone has to manage with the friends.

Jo ho gaya so ho gaya. Now start a new beginning with your husband. Its great that you realise it sooner. Its not easy to live a double life. God bless you

That new friend was passing time with you He would have never married you .he was looking for some physical.free intimacy which is safe too .it starts as friendship and slowly makes you confess your personal.life .and they act as if they are the only people who can give you happiness .outside he will be talking differently about you .good you put an end .better discuss on having a better relationship with your hubby and work on it

The feeling of guilt is justified but that also made you take the right decision.

Am I the only one who finds it hard to believe. 😜

Wicket of noball, u just escaped. U handled ur urge very maturely,come out of it have blissful life ahead.

Be ready for consequences in case it does not go the way you forsaw it ...

I feel sorry for your husband. If he was not there for you, you should have walked away instead of extramarital affair. Cheating is never a choice but a series of deliberate decisions. And don’t blame it on him. It’s not the betrayed spouse’s fault, its betrayer’s character flaw

You have made the correct decision. Just make sure to cut off all contact with him, since you still have feelings for him.

It sounds like you've already done the hardest part, being honest with yourself about how and why this happened. Loneliness in a marriage is real, and emotional neglect can make people vulnerable to seeking connection elsewhere. That doesn't justify crossing boundaries, but it does explain how you reached that point. What stands out is that you recognized the situation before it became even more complicated, ended the relationship, and chose to focus on your marriage instead of continuing to live a double life. That shows self awareness and a willingness to take responsibility for your actions. At the same time, it's important not to place all the blame on yourself while ignoring the underlying issues in the marriage. A relationship is a partnership, and emotional distance, lack of communication, and unmet needs don't develop overnight. Your husband may not deserve betrayal, but neither do you deserve years of feeling invisible and unheard. Rather than remaining trapped in guilt, use this experience as a wake up call to address the real problem. Have an honest conversation with your husband about your loneliness, your need for emotional connection, and the changes you've noticed in your relationship. Consider marriage counseling if both of you are willing. Guilt is only useful if it leads to growth and better decisions. You've already ended the affair and made your choice. Now the question is whether both of you are willing to put effort into rebuilding the emotional intimacy that seems to have been missing for a long time.

Your husband was / is cheating on you. No husband would take away the affection like that. While you are sitting in guilt, he is enjoying somewhere. I am sure if you spy on him, you will start to see little things

Great, cant tell husband but can tell strangers. Big claps

I'm glad you didn't cross the finish line, but I would advise you that if you really feel guilty, compensate it and make up for your mistake with more love

Appreciate the fact that you got a grip on yourself and listened to your conscience. ❤️ That in itself is rare these days. The conversation with your husband is bound to be a tough one and has every reason to be. Nonetheless, best wishes towards working on your marriage! Hope both of you can continue to be happy together.

Boys what did you learn?

What you did is wrong, an emotional affair is still an affair, even worse than a physical affair. The good part is that you ended it. Now focus on your marriage,. communicate clearly to your husband about your emotional needs and see for the year, how things are going? If he doesn't change and meet your emotional needs, decide what you want? Are you ok staying with an emotionally unavailable husband or do you want something more? If you want something more, get divorce and live a single life or find someone who will be available emotionally too. You are fortunate that you don't have kids and you are independent, there is no need to stay in a marriage where you are not valued or basic emotional needs are not met. But frankly speaking, most Indian men between the ages of 35 to 50 are too much occupied with career, money and investment and totally neglect their spouse and kids emotional needs. They are still suffering from provider syndrome even though their spouse doesn't need it. Even if you find someone new, there is no guarantee that he will be different. So think hard and carefully before taking the next step.

U emotionally cheated ur husband already. If u want to make frnds (male/ female ), make sure they can come in front of ur husband too! There should be transparency in ur relationship.

Where's the cheating?? 😔

bk❤️di wanted to fullfill her emotional needs, feel validated and spice up her life and so she used two men to fullfill herself a horrible human still if you didn't went physical All these people especially women saying kudos, whatever happened lavda lehsun I hope you deserve the same

Very nice thinking... correcting your self without doing any mistake..be careful with chats, delete from your phone and that person phone also. After deleting everything then stop talking to him.

If you want 2 in 1 you decide. Don't confuse. Njoy your life. Nothing wrong

It is good that you took right decision.. don't go for extra marital affair, you will spoil fun in your married life.. later you will not enjoy your outside affair.. you took right decision at right time before crossing your limits. Husband and wife take help of psychologist/ therapist to mend up your relay

so your P is drile by someone else now...did you put it back when it slipped out ?

Ur affair with the other person was reason of shaky relationship with ur husband . Though u both are married but in reality it's dead .when u both emotionally not in sync that itself is biggest indicator. Marriage is not about just physical it has many facets physical itself can't compensate for other deficit. U should talk take decision. It's OK if u are not happy want to walk away. Ur husband also should be forthcoming with real reason why is so aloof and distant if he doesn't come with valid behavior continues to this it's time to pack up and go. Don't feel guilty it's OK. No human are perfect we are not God perfection lies in stories and not reality everybody pretends to be one but nobody really is

You handled well, the burden of getting physically intimate with someone outside the marriage would have haunted you for life, as it is said ' Making Mistakes is a Part of Life, Rectifying them is an Art of Life'..

Ye accha hai 😂😂😂

Hein, love marriage me v 🤔 are akhir chahiye qa ldkiyon ko bhai 😑

end tak mat read karna…jo tum read karne aaye ho wesa kuch ni hai 😂😂 and for girl…with ur decision..u saved urself ur husband & ur so called boyfriends life from spoiling kudos to you🫶🏻

Go for a short holiday . Spend more time with ur hubby . Don't talk any personal things with ur friends especially ur male friends

I appreciate your loyality . Good u took right decescion and u never cheated ur husband . Meeting for Cofee breaks is fine . At one point u realized u were getting into wrong track and that’s important . Loyality comes first in relationships. Everyone does some kind of mistakes at some point in there lives . That’s ok . Humans r prone to error . But realizing that and not repeating is important . Kudos to ur comeback . No one comes till end except husband and wife for each other if they r committed to each other truly . Love ur life and spend with him ur best moments ahead .

Christianity have better option;anyway,the worst form of cheating is denying self

🙄Usko de toh dete, phir confess karna tha, abhi toh iss post mein koi merit nahi hai🤔

You handled it well and kudos to you for that. Have a serious talk with your husband, have a sit down with him and tell him what your expectations are from this relationship and when you're absolutely certain that things can't go any other way compared to where they already are then I guess it's time for you to leave and explore the other side of the world.

at least u realized this and changed, good that u have done this which is good for ur life

Even late. decision but worthy one.. Proceednwithbthwtn eveb he is not making you can try this bond to be live

Nothing beats self realisation All the best Miss. 🤝

Good talk to solve the issue

Brothers if your emotional and physical needs are not met do the same.

Even when you feel a distance between you and the husband don’t use any other male as an emotional support to handle your loneliness, please realise your life has other priorities too, and nothing is worth breaking this beautiful husband and wife relationship. Why should a woman always needs a man to make her feel loved? Find hobbies, learn something new, get a new degree, even if you end up having an affair, remember men never ever respect a married woman who is having an affair with them, never. So don’t lose your self respect and find something useful to do 🙏🏽 fight with your husband for attention even but never ever cheat on him, that is the most disgusting thing one can ever do in a relationship

You didn't cheat (I hate to say this coz mostly women cheats the most) and technically I don't appreciate but you did good job saving your healthy relationship...good luck with your future life with your hubby

In the next two years this will repeat find another better person who give 🦋 butterflies mam prepare for the consequences if your husband finds out

Bhak Bangladeshi

You just talked to him when you were all lonely, there's a difference between being lonely and alone. Almost every human wants to be listen. That's why people get married to get a company. But in your case your husband is there but still not there. So it was obvious to get attracted towards the one who gives you all the attention but trust the truth, once he'll get bored of you he'll move on and you will be left with a stamp as cheater. So curb your feelings and talk to your husband that spending time with each other is necessary to run this marriage, even I'm not free 24x7 but still total communication or emotional cut off with each other might lead to collapse of this marriage, at least half an hour we should spend with each other only, when no one and nothing else exist, this is bare minimum to make this marriage survive, if you are bored with me then we can join something intresting together, maybe gym, yoga class, or just simple morning or evening walk in nearby park, or anything of your choice.. If he is half way sensible then he'll understand and will do the required, but if he still changes after few days then you go wherever you want, mo need to take solo responsibility to run this marriage, marriage was never a one person responsibility, it always requires both to put some efforts, one is begging, one is ignoring, this is never how it works.

U had an emotional affair . So yes u r a cheater . U stopped before things could get worst , which is good judgement finally on ur part. Learn ur lesson now and block anyone who isn't strictly professional with u , do not pursue friendships with men . U will always be vulnerable of affair if ur marriage is shaky . Please see a marriage counsellor as a couple , If he doesnt agree then approach ur families to convince him . If u need a certified counsellor, whatsapp me +91 9819850818

आपके यहां बच्चे क्यों नहीं हुये क्या कोई मेडिकल प्रॉब्लम है बच्चे कपल को जोड़ने में मदद करते हैं और वैसे भी शादी के सात आठ साल बाद रिश्ते बहुत बोरिंग हो जाते हैं ऐसे समय में बच्चा होना बहुत जरूरी होता है उसकी वजह से लाइफ में थोड़ा थ्रिल और एडवेंचर बना रहता है आप भी बोर हो रही है और आपके हस्बैंड भी बोर हो रहे हैं बेहतर होगा कोई बच्चा गोद ले लो ईट विल चेंज योर लाइफ अपने चीट को timepass समझ के भूल जाये और हस्बैंड को न बताएं फालतू उसे दुख होगा ।

Wonderful sister.... Good move... speak to ur man.... every thing will come normal...

Mitti dalo...😏

Avarage corporate r@@@@@ di

Irony of these posts.. an hour ago there was a confession about a man who had 7 partners before and was physically involved with everyone and after marriage had problems so thought of checking the cause and hired a hooker and comment section was full with funny comments saying bro checking the root cause etc etc instead of saying you are morally wrong but when a women confess something all are ready to jump out and call her names 😂

You should arrange an escort for your husband to free you if the guilt

Now your husband will start a new relationship with others.

If anyone wants to cheat in a marriage pls end it first instead of hurting the other spouse. Then do whatever you want.

Bwahahahaha What a woman Travelled in two boats and basically used her own emptiness to escape a reality and be with a man who emotionally got involved with her. At the end ran back to her husband only. If he is so good and loves you despite knowing all this why did you have an affair? Where was this communication or nurturing when you wanted to escape your reality?

The other guy’s biggest talent was being available 😂

Sounak Bar see this... the maturity is appreciated

You handled it really well and matured. Kudos to you. Appreciate it

I salute you for saving your married life. Cool & calm discussion with your husband will sort out this issue. All the best wishes.

Honesty is always liked by men. Just be frank with him, should work out fine

Life is short. Enjoy..

Maybe your husband is an air sign, or Capricorn, Sagittarius, Virgo

It's cheating only if you are intimate. Men consider intimacy as cheating while women consider loving someone as cheating.

Arey didi, yahi sab toh husband k saat hua tha before love marriage, now it’s long ago, so new man, new chapter. Same thing gonna repeat, he gonna become husband and after few years and lose interest and story goes on in loop.

"ஆசை அறுபது நாள், மோகம் முப்பது நாள்" 😅

Finallly found a confession with a sensible end/MIND after checking out nearly 200 posts since last 6-7 months 👌

lesson: always doubt

wow, you deserve padmashree

Women will always have this superpower in India. Men are falling at the feet of a presentable working woman all the time. It's hard to resist that much attention for anyone. Plus the demand supply ratio is heavily skewed towards women. So men please learn to live with this reality and prepare yourself before getting married to a woman itself. This is a reality of today's times.

Oh thank god you had us in the first half😭😂

Date for more days , you will only leave him...u and your husband are together for 10years up and downs are obviously....this new guy you dono how he feels after few years...dont ruin your life

Nothing can justify extramarital affair.

Stay away from the outside attention "coz you are getting attention as long as they don't have easy access to you physically. Once, its done then you will find yourself alone all over again and might think of finding another one. Sometimes, you just have to accept that things/people/situation changes 🙂

Highly appreciated 👍

Should have done this, before Having relationship with that guy 🤔 you should have asked you ur husband way before

I hope your husbands discloses first that he has been cheating on you for a while

Der is a life apart from earning... Earn good spend smart. Illicit affairs always comes with surprise gifts called as stress. Dont reveal anything, past is passed... take care of ur emotions

One thing i didn’t understand or maybe i didn’t get so did you get physical? Plus ur husband needs to know this whatever u guys did he deserves to know then you guys can make ur own decisions what to do next. but its highly unlikely that he would want to continue this marriage any further after this so be ready for that . And most importantly nothing stays hidden forever it will see light of day someday nd you will not be ready for that nd it wouldn’t be on your convenience now u have choice to do it on your own convenience nd use the words u wanna use if he get to know it from somewhere else then u wouldn’t have liberty to choose your own words only situation will decide that

charam sukha sarba sukha

Hemavathi Raman

L O S E R 🎺

You did the right thing aborting the mission right before missiles were to be fired right in there..

You are BIG Payal, ya hoe!!!! hoe!!! hoe!!!! hoe!!........

Thank you ChatGPT for 15 shades of black!

Ok, so women get post nut clarity too but much later 😅

Another lame excuse. Just that you are a woman here. If it was your husband, would he really think of you? Lol.

Well done girl 💪🏻

Lady is lying. The 28 year old did her several times...

If you are going to speak with your husband then why did you choose to go for extramarital affair? You could do the same before but you didn't.

Good

Fake and AI generated

You know you could have done an IVF or adopted a kid.

I respect your thoughts! You just saved your relationship and the family. Please talk with your husband, tell him how you feel and what you want from him. He will surely understand it

chatppt

Chal hatt

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