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Submit ConfessionGender: Female9 June 2026 at 8:06 pm
#C27324 I am a 39-year-old woman with two children — an 11-year-old daughter and a 6-month-old baby boy. My life has been full of ups and downs, and I often feel many of my struggles are the result of my own impulsive emotional decisions. Sometimes I feel I have spoiled my own life in ways I never imagined. My husband and I had a love marriage in 2012, though we knew each other since 2008. We came from middle-class families and, being middle children, carried responsibilities for both sides of the family. Financially, we supported many relatives — my husband’s siblings and my own family as well. I spent most of my salary helping others, taking loans for my siblings’ education and marriage, and supporting family needs. Today, I have almost no savings, no jewelry of my own, and most of my salary goes toward loans. Despite giving so much, I often felt emotionally neglected, unseen, and unappreciated — both in my in-laws’ family and my own. During family gatherings, I felt cornered and lonely. Deep inside, I craved love, attention, emotional connection, and respect. In 2019, my life changed when I became emotionally attached to a colleague. Over time, the attachment became very strong. I even told him I would divorce my husband so we could marry, but he refused because he feared social judgment and damaging his reputation. Despite trying to end the relationship several times, we could not separate emotionally. Eventually, he got married due to family and societal pressure. I was heartbroken and even tried to stop the marriage, but later accepted it. After only a few months, his marriage fell apart due to personal issues between them. During that time, he chose me and wanted a future together. I even moved into a rented flat away from my husband and family to gain clarity, but eventually returned because I could not stay away from my daughter. In April 2023, I confessed my affair to my husband. He was deeply hurt but never cruel to me. We started divorce proceedings and even attended our first court hearing in tears. Yet he told me to choose the life that would make me happy. Later, we paused the divorce and continued living together. My husband remained calm and supportive, but I failed to fully end contact with my boyfriend, who was still waiting for clarity about our future. In 2025, I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriend’s child. I was devastated and terrified. I discovered the pregnancy after 10 weeks and felt emotionally broken. I did not want to terminate the pregnancy, but I was equally afraid of society, my husband, and the consequences. My boyfriend wanted to keep the baby and emotionally supported me. Since I still had no clarity about marriage or my future, we decided he would raise the baby after birth. For nearly seven months, I hid my pregnancy while living with my in-laws. I dealt with sickness, emotional pain, fear, and loneliness completely alone. Even my mother did not know. Later, I moved away claiming work reasons and stayed with my boyfriend during the final months of pregnancy. I gave birth to a baby boy and cared for him for two months before returning. Leaving him behind was emotionally devastating, but I believed I was following what had already been decided. After returning home, I told my husband the truth again. He was heartbroken, yet once again asked me to choose the life that would truly make me happy. The problem is that I am not happy. When I am with my husband and daughter, I deeply miss my boyfriend and baby boy. When I am with my boyfriend and son, I feel guilt and miss my husband and daughter. My daughter chose to stay with her father, which completely broke me. I wanted both my children to grow up together with me, but life seems to have taken another path. My husband still hopes we can rebuild our marriage, while my boyfriend wants us to build a life together for the sake of our son and stability. I feel emotionally torn, confused, guilty, and unable to decide where I truly belong or what life would bring peace to everyone involved. Sometimes, I feel so overwhelmed by the consequences of my choices that I want to run away from everything. I am not looking for sympathy or criticism of anyone involved. I know mistakes were made, including by me. I am only trying to understand what the right path forward is — for myself, my daughter, my son, and everyone connected to this situation. I would truly appreciate respectful and honest thoughts.
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Jab bhi mera dimag kharab hota hai mai confession padh leti hu, bada sukoon sa milta hai, thandak pad jati hai kaleje me.. Par samaj hi nahi ata itna entertainment milne k baad comments padhkar aur zyada sukoon milta hai..
You are a problem, not part of the problem but the ENTIRE problem
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And she writes 'mistakes were made, including by me'.😀 You are solely responsible for the hell of a situation. No other is responsible.
Basically aap ek R&D hai
Ye hindi serial ka plot mujhe koi shanti se samjhaye! Ma'am you are one of the reasons guys are scared to get married!
Bakchodi on its peak😁😁
And I thought my life is a mess. But after reading this post I realised my life is heavenly. 🤩
You can do Odd days and Even Days with each partner and child. Or Weekdays with Husband + Daughter and Weekends with Boyfriend+Son. Or Monday Wednesday Friday with Husband and Tuesday Thursday Saturday with BF ....Sunday is for rest and posting Confession. Take ChatGPT's help.
Convince both the fathers to share the same house with you, along with the children, life will be sorted
Buy a two floor house . Ground floor your old family and first floor your family.. When your in laws come, first floor family will be as a tenant..
You can start a poultry farm. One egg here, one egg there.
Lady, A. You are not a victim. B. You need to find yourself first, if needed contact a counsellor. C. Never try to justify cheating. Neither to yourself, nor on a public platform.
The second last paragraph - 2nd line - 'Mistakes were made, including by me.' No words!! No Words!!
Husband of the millennium 🫡
Is this for real Or all this happened in your dreams? even movies now days do not have so much of twist and turns awaiting for your next confession!
Is it a true story at all?? It felt like a Chetan Bhagat story more. My mind totally frozen, what soil your husband is made of??
Both men are gamma men ... If you were married with alpha male, u might have been posting this from Hell . A moment for silence for you
You spent years searching for happiness in other people and ended up breaking four hearts, including your own. The next miracle isn’t a new relationship—it’s taking responsibility for the life you’ve created.
You are neither missing your boyfriend, nor your husband. You are missing your inner alignment and connection. You have been searching for approval and validation from everyone outside of you but never paused and looked within. I sincerely suggest that you meet a Counseling Psychologist and get therapy. Sort your priorities. Because I also don't know what is the right choice. You need to go deep within and try to remediate all the lapses. I wish you accountability and healing!
Husband is a doormat.
You can't hide pregnancy for 7 months. In future stories, write better. I encourage your writing skill, though its far too low to bring anything out of it for you
Esa kese possible hai k pure month pregnancy mein husband maayke sasural Wale sb chhod de fully akele boyfriend k sath wo bhi lower middle class family mein , sb jaante h morden kitne v ho jaaye bahar se itne sal bad dobara pregnant mtlb sbko beta hone ki aas umeed or bahu laapata with boyfriend 😆 khair entertainment k liye achi script likhi h koi director producer ko mail krdo 🤓
Aap khud ek case study hai, believe me.
It's look like story of pati patni and wo 😆 better you all 3 of gentleman live together under one roof 😆
This is one, very confused lady,confused husband,and confused boyfriend...start a band called "confusion".
Kaha se order deke banaya aisa husband aur aisa bf jo itne easy to go along hai ...bapre u have guts
Simple, 5 more husband and 5more child. Give 1day per week to all of them
Just break all relationship and join shanayshi life in virndavan. You had enjoyed two man same time , some ppl don’t have any life after 40-50 years of life. Give mental peace to both men and child.
there are men with two wife why not a woman have two husband living in different home :P
Where exactly did u find your husband, a perennial forgiving guy, a guy who says "u slept with others, that's fine, finish all the sex and come back I will accept u, u want a child through someone else that's fine too, deliver and come back, u want to live with someone else as a trial, that's fine too, ...😳" Fascinating stuff. 😁 Ps: ur husband is first of male equivalent of "stepford wives."
Are these true...or just story telling?
You can raise two children from different fathers with you but can't live with two men together under one roof... that's the fact!!
Not sure guys this page and crime patrol series have same content most of time , in which anyone in their life are getting so called companion left, right ,centre (colleague, plumber , electrician , driver, maid, watchman) but in real life most of them are getting nothing
The thing is that both doors are open for you. What type of husband is he? There are many more points that are missed.
I dnt know lust kaha lekar jata hai logo ko makes them blind and name is given love and at times its a attraction also or FOMO of spice in life I feel you can stay like draupati with 2 husbands and half time here half time there simple
How can anyone tell you what the right path forward is? There are so many people involved here and there is nothing you can do without hurting someone else. You will have to make a choice and be okay with the consequences of that choice, whatever they may be. At no point will you be able to have everything, unless all of you choose to live together. And if at all that happens, the dynamics between your family members will be really weird. Also - I think it will help for you to go in for some kind of counselling/therapy that helps you understand your own behaviour. Please remember that your children will grow up watching you. I hope you find your way.
As you see so many big hyphens -- like this, the story is nicely cooked up by the poster using AI it seems.. Well done🫠
About time we teach concepts such as Brahmacharya, Grihastashrama, Sanyama, Tapasya etc to our young generation. I feel these situations have already been faced hundreds or thousands of years ago by our ancestors,and that's why they invented such concepts for an ideal society. Wish we do the same now as well.
Take one decision, sister. Else you will be responsible for causing sorrow and tragedy for four people directly and your in laws and your parents indirectly. If I was in your place I wud choose husband for his forgiving nature. With your son you need to discuss that with your bf and move out that relationship. Hiw much ever you miss him or ur kid, it's better u r out of there before son reached an understanding age. And make a commitment to yourself to be devoted to married life. Focus on social work. And honestly don't take all the stupid emotions too seriously. Apply objective and practical thinking wherever possible
Why don't you create joint family. Both pay you maintainance. You happy, they happy, children happy they got company. Common, You are dropati now make both happy.
Sath sath raho sab😂😂badia aadmi mile hain aapko
SORRY TO SAY..... Aapko ghar ka bhi khana pasand hai aur Hotel ka bhi. Aap chahti hain ke dono milkar ek sath rahein. Aap chati hain ke dono ki razamandi ho aur approval mil jaye. Aapko koi guilt nahi hai aapke husband ki acchai ka aap najayaz fayeda uthaye. Aapke confess karne ke baad bhi aapka husband maaf kar diya. Aapki Nazar mein husband bewakoof hai aur aap jab chahe usko ulloo bana sakte. Yeh aap baqoobi jaanti hain aur aap yeh sab apni jismani khwahish ko desire ko poora karne ke liye kiye. Aapko kya suggestion dena aap khud samajhdar hai. Suna tha do kashti mein sawari mahengi padhti hai per yahan ulta hai Ek kashti do samundar mein safar kar rahi hai. Main sirf yeh kahunga VERY GOOD VERY GOOD VERY GOOD
Actually, from the tales of it never happened.
If ur life is full of ups and downs then don't hv children
Since your husband is so understanding you all can try threesome 😆😆
I am not sure how true this is. Nonetheless, since both the men in your life seem okay with your double preferences, why don't you ask them if you can make it official between the three of you? I feel that both the men will agree. And one word of caution, both the men may ask for expansion of the arrangement, i.e. they will have another woman while being with you. Be ready for it!
Cinema ki kya jarurat hai hume jb aise diggaj log humare samne confessions kr rhe hai
Kabhi alvida na kehna!
its a case study for family law...
In Mahabarath, one lady had family with 5 husbands. Don't worry. Buy an apartment and each floor keep your family - you have so many in-laws now. Don't leave your boy(??) friend's wife as well. In a way, you can create your own community with more emotions.
Sabhi sath rah lo jab husband ko koi problem nhi hai to...kya Bakwas story hai yarr 😅
Psychologist counselling lijiye, Confusion is your main problem. . You need to become emotionally intelligent, so that you can understand your feeling and off course others also. . Their is some thing in your past which is unheald, due to which your mind is confused and making decisions upon other people's view. Find your self again. Asking for forgiveness is easy but forgiving own self is hard . Take a councelling from a good psychologist it will lift your life in good direction.
Leave your husband and daughter, they deserve better
Abhi bhi tym h ek toh person se tym emotional aur physical attach ho jaogi ,then you will decide where to go
Please seek counselling to deal with ur insecurity and morality first.. Then think about other things mentioned over here.. . so that u don't choose wrong path again n again...
Bro humara ek boyfrn ni ban pa raha Yahan aap k do bacche vo different fathers
दो जहाज ओर दो पैर, किसी दिन लाइफ ending होना ही है।
Gents 2 maintain karte suna tha ab ladies bhi 2 maintain karre film ka dialogue yad agaya bache ke 2 do baap
Actually your husband needs right path n guidance. You have exhausted all help line. There is a limit to everything...deeply feel sorry for your husband.....God bless your kids. End of the one side kids need to grow without mothers love
Bas aise hi confusion se mujhe kisi ki yaad aa gayi
"First of all, I don't think this is a real incident or confession. Even if it is true, I do not wish to make any comments about you. I would only say this about your husband: he is in no way manly; he does not possess any masculine qualities at all."
All of u live together..both children n both husbands..by looks of it..both seems fine..🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣such a great story
Mai bas ye soch raha hun kitna mazboot hoga iska husband jo ye sab janne ke baad bhi isse keh raha hai ki jisme tumhari Khushi hai wo karo
AI se generated story lagti h
That's actually a better plot than what's happening in the West Bengal political scenario right now. Good job.
This is one of the reasons a guy should have side chick even after marriage
What a lucky lady. Did everything to hurt two men and disrespected her husband in worst possible way, got away with it, still getting space and time to look for clarity, wow. Lady buy a lotto ticket you will win it.
Leave your husband first please he is suffering the most..
ohh nobody gave me the importance I deserved yet there are 2 men who are thinking n wanting you n your happiness..stop being bichara n own it..u have already ruined Ur daughter n husband..let them live in peace n go to the infant..for once think about the the young life n be selfless
You’ve spent years carrying everyone - family, loans, responsibilities - and now you’re just trying to breathe. Please know you’re not “spoiled” or broken. You’re human, and humans get messy when they’re starved of love and rest. I won’t tell you which man to choose because that’s not the real question here. The real question is: where can your 11yo daughter plus 6mo son both feel safe, stable, and loved without more upheaval? They didn’t choose this, so they need consistency most right now. Guilt will keep pulling you both ways, but you deserve peace too. Please don’t run away. Get a counselor if you can - not for judgment, but just to untangle guilt vs what YOU actually want for the next 10 years. Both your kids need their mom, even if she’s imperfect. And you deserve more than just survival. Sending you strength. You’re doing the best you can with a broken heart.
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This may sound harsh, but you need to make a decision. You cannot keep trying to hold on to both relationships while hurting yourself and everyone involved. Stop justifying your actions as impulsive mistakes. These were choices, and the first step is to take full responsibility for them. Start by speaking honestly with your daughter. She deserves an apology and an explanation. It will be difficult, but being truthful may help rebuild your relationship with her, regardless of what you ultimately decide. Then have honest conversations with your husband and your boyfriend. Take time to understand what you truly want and who you want to build your future with. In the end, you will have to choose one path and let go of the other. You can still remain involved in your children's lives and maintain a meaningful relationship with them. But continuing as things are now is only causing more pain, confusion, and uncertainty for everyone involved.
Buy another flat in same apartment, however ur husband is good person he will understand, continue ur joint family...
Is this true or scripted?
Please tell me how did you hide 7th month pregnancy from inlaws while living with them
Is this true? Or cooked up ? Eppadiyum ella Kooda erupangala ?
2 things are repeated in this story 'i had no clarity' and' my husband asked me to do what makes me happy'. Arey, what more clarity do you need. You can't have everything. You have to choose or just go to the Himalayas. You can't live a double sided life. You are causing hurt to 4 more people. Your husband seems to be understanding and capable to take care of the daughter alone. Maybe your boyfriend and child needs more of you now. As for your happiness, don't look for it in both the sides. You will need to sacrifice one of them. One thing I don't understand is you never ever had clarity, yet you allowed yourself to get pregnant bringing more confusion to your life 😔
I never heard such a worst story it's not about our traditions but should have a self responsibility and we should be answerable to our inner peace
For the Men out there:- 1. Never be like her husband (No self respect at all) 2. Never be like her Boyfriend/Colleague (whatever) never indulge with someone else's wife. (Raise your standards man) No words for her💀 Let the Faithful & Loyal women deal with her😌
If u feel lonely and not recognised by others it's totally normal for every woman, only because of this reason your total life got into miserable, you may find what makes you happy rather than choosing another boy..if suppose he also behaves like this after many years what you will do...no one is perfect in this world..in my point doing one marriage and having one or two child itself makes us heavy work..like as a woman our contribution will be more, but you have two members which makes still more you have to do, you may be alone rather than choosing another guy....
Are these things really happening in society? I feel India should legalize and regulate prostitution. If someone's needs are not being fulfilled, they could use a legal and transparent option instead of hiding things, which often leads to cheating, heartbreak, and damaged relationships.
i just want to see your husband, is he an angel 😂
Tell your bf and hubby to be more liberal and bring everyone under one roof. One big happy family. No scope for jealousy though.
This group encourages me more each day to stay single after reading all the wild stories some of which sounds even more weird than movies
Please go for cognitive behavioral therapy, that helps getting clarity, getting out of behavioral cycles and decide how to move on.
Best way to live is opt both your husband and bf and children and bring both in laws and your parents in the same house. Then your life will be happiest.
Self respect, Honesty, Loyalty, Code, Honor other than these can find everything in marriages these days.
Story of the mobile handset with dual sim.. 😐
Seems like these men are more confusing than yourself. If any of them were decisive, the problem might have already been resolved.
Why should Armaan Malik( YouTuber) have all the fun?
"Hum Paanch"
believe me if third person I mean boyfriend and husband. Other one approach her support emotionally she fell love for him too . Because she don't have boundaries
I would have opted for divorce. And left you at the mercy of karma forever . Till my last breath. Frankly speaking. Your hubby is mahapurush.
Bhagwan ko pyare ho jaawo....tathastu🤚
You seriously need counselling...you playing with fire .. damage would be your daughter and son .. Both the men have gone through emotional turmoils but Now the same effect will be on the kids . So first get a psychiatric consult and counselling ..
🤣🤣🤣god save us 🤣🤣🤣 aise bhi log hote h dunia me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Including me 🤣🤣 no sis mistakes were made only by you. You belong to a place called streets & your boyfriend too
Sach bolun mujhe jalan Hui tumse Sab kuch normal hote hue Hume apne pati imotional support kar de badi bat he Tum socho kitni lucky ho Boyfriend k sath baccha kar lia fir v pati rakhne ko tayar he... Pati ko chod do to boyfriend tayar... Sach me tumme kuch to talent hoga🤔🤔🤔
Mothama oree house la irunga..........ore solution for u is that
ऐसी चरित्र कि ही स्त्रियों को पुराणों में वैश्या कहा गया है