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Submit ConfessionGender: Prefer not to say13 May 2026 at 7:37 pm
#C27119 SIL problem My brother’s wife (SIL) is mentally torturing my brother and parents with false accusations . It’s an arranged marriage setup. It was already mentioned before marriage that the son will stay with his parents as he needs to look after them for healthcare of his parents. The girl and his family were ok with it and proceeded with marriage. The red flags started before marriage itself. My family requested to have register marriage but girls family denied which is understandable. Then she started forcing him in wedding ceremonies which he was not interested like photo shoot. ( understandable again due to dream wedding ideologies of people) Then parents gifted her saree as per ritual for engagement. If she did not like it she should have an honest conversation. Instead she tortured my brother saying my family did not like it , but you parents gave it . They will feel bad . At the end she did what she wanted. Then next comes to jewellery , same story. Her father begged to take her daughter for selection as she is the owner of it. I don’t understand what is the meaning of gift. It is something we give out of love but they have been entering into everything and making their way out. Then evening during wedding they did what they wanted and then peoples reaction of it they did not like it . Such a narcissist behaviour of the entire family. After marriage she stayed for 3 months with parents and from day 1 she has been filling some or the other stories of his parents to him. And even she did not spare me where I don’t live. I have not spoken to her a single word since the marriage day. Apparently she complains no one speaks with her but she never speaks to people. She gets up at 10 and leaves for work and arrives at 10pm . She is blaming of physical abuse which did not happen. And his father is a big time liar too. He confessed big promises during marriage but did not fulfill a single promise. Despite all that the boys family never cared because they are not interested in their money or promises. They want a peaceful life. It all started because of insecurity of this lady and her family daily talks by which she is spoiling her life and the boys life along with their new born now. She left home and never returned and she wants respect from family. She and her family have disrespected my family by inviting them to rituals and not speaking to them and not even offering food. And now they that it’s a boy her family is trying to pressure my brother leave his parents but the girl won’t leave her family . She wants only her parents and the my brother. Her family is threatening to put false cases and trying to alienate him from his family and even friends . The laws of India will only support a female no matter how wrong she is . Can someone suggest how to proceed in such case.
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It all depends on the man (ur brother) he chose this life. As a brother, according to u, it may look, he is helpless. But, every situation, ur brother is in,it's cos of his own self. Women respect powerful men. If ur sis-inlaw is doing all this, it only shows, she has no respect for ur brother n he is only proving her right by letting her win. U just be careful with ur life. Don't worry too much abt ur brother's life.
Trust me you are not alone ,Ghar ghar ki khanai hai ye ..I am also suffering from same kind of story...This all was pre planned by her family.. women don't love men ever now ,They love what men can provide.She is doing all that things to get divorce and huge Alimony.. Feminist beaches always cry nd play super victim card.. But trust me they are forgetting that one day one women will came to her house also as her SIL nd she will destroy everything.. Trust me this kind of things happening almost 2 house .. She will definitely file false case on you ..But take care of your brother because Husband can't fight with their wife also laws is too much biased towards women. Don't be Atul Subhash..Marna nhi mAarna hai. 👍
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Speak to a lawyer, stay cool and pretend as if nothing has happened. Then silently collect proofs of their bad behaviour over a period of a year or so, record all calls, interactions, messages, threats etc. and then in the end drop the bomb directly in the courts.
Record every conversation. Spy camera Ask your parents to have zero conversation with her or with her family. Better file a complaint in police.
She is your SIL, let your brother handle her. If she wants a photoshoot, how is she wrong! If she wanted to select her jewelry or saree, how is that even wrong ! She is married to your brother, so if she wants to have a separate home, even that is not wrong too. It’s her family too. Sometimes a little distance is good. You and parents should tell your brother to move out, this will save so much of heartbreak for everyone. Now what your brother promised to her is debatable, you don’t know, you can’t say. Let your brother deal with it.
Dont worry nothing will happen . If you and your family has been clean . I mean no injury to the girl and no medical for it . All allegations will be for nothing . Need to have strong heart now . There will be no arrest . You Will have to fight this out .
Does your brother has any proof of her in what's app written statement send from her mobile number . Related to any of the above issue . If yes make print out copies of that . Find a good lawyer and file for divorce . It can be recorded conversation too where they threaten to file false cases against your brother . Submit all these proofs in court through your lawyer on the grounds of mental cruelty hence seeking a divorce You will get divorce but.... Your brother might have to pay alimony which again the court decides. If not satisfied your brother can appeal in higher courts but it will drain out your resources. So try to reach out of court settlement if they are ready after consulting through your lawyer who will guide you as per his years of experience on how to proceed neutrally. Just get one weakness of theirs as proof . And 😍 tell them u are submitting all evidence in family court for divorce. in case the spouse is caught cheating, court will order no alimony in most cases. But still as he has a child now that will complicate the matter a bit . Court will say it's dad's responsibility too to take care of childs support expenses till he grows up .
Aur karo shaadi simps.
Whatever allegations you have put on your sil like photoshoot, buying gold of her choice, getting saree of her choice are NOT even real life problems. You and your family are trying to control her by saying she shouldn't have choices in whatever saree or gold she is wearing. Firstly if she has shared something to your brother that she doesn't like then it is your husband's responsibility to fix it. I don't understand why you and your family are interfering in her choices. Honestly to me, you and your family looks like a huge red flag. To save this marriage best is your brother stand up and move out with her and be a man instead of tolerating people trying to ruin his marriage.
What promises the father of the SIL made? Do you mean dowry? It sounds like your family is the aggressor here not the victim
Waiting for other side of story, Confession from a newly wed girl with interfering SIL.
It’s just a matter of time to start false cases… women laws are enacted to safeguard them but now they are used as a weapon against husbands and other women in the family. Classic example of women destroying another women with the help of women favored laws. Unfortunately no women raised their voices to curb such atrocities against them and their brothers and fathers.. 🙈🙈
See why today our daughter's or sons doesn't want to married because of no good people in society or inhuman.
no second thoughts divorce her and remarry ur brother with a good girl
Few girls like you mentioned, just want to live with husband and no considerations of his parents..this things comes from blood....so don't think she will change and don't try to change her. You all will waste your energy on her with zero result.