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Submit ConfessionGender: Female13 May 2026 at 2:37 am
#C27115 31/F, married for 5 years, have a 2 year old beautiful kid, both me and my husband are working. The problem here is initial 2 years of marriage till child birth was very happy.he used to spend time with me a lot, we both enjoy eachother's company just playing,talking, teasing each other. After childbirth our parents shifted with us to take care of baby ( one month my mother and next month my mother in law). Now the problem is my husband is addicted to mobile games for the past 1 year. He hardly spends time with me and our daughter which makes me sad and lonely. He literally carries mobile everywhere and will be continuously playing..even if we go out he'll be concentrating on phone and doesn't give me adequate attention which makes me hurt, although confronting many times regarding this he doesn't understand and argues with me that I'm interfering with his independence as he doesn't go out anywhere, barely hangout with friends.On I side I can understand that he needs his personal space and time, on the other side when I see him with phone it makes me feel depressed as all my time has been now replaced by this phone. sometimes I feel like I want to take revenge on him like using the mobile like him and emotionally unavailable when he is in need but thinking about baby in mind I don't want to do that.kindly suggest me how to make him understand that his presence is most valuable for me and my daughter I will be happy if he spends atleast of 10 mins/day or suggest me some alternative so that I should not be emotionally dependent on him Thanks in advance.
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Revenge lena bhari pad sakta hai, husband ko bas ek tagda act full shock chahiye, jo unko is addiction se jaga de. Ya to leagal notice bhej sakte hai. Ya fir 3 days 2 night ki outing me jaa sakte hai, if possible then by road jana better hoga, taki wo khud drive kar sake, then return jab aate rahenge, us time me aap sidhe apne parents ke ghar jaaiye, aur waha rukiye, aur waha se choice dijiye ya to family ya phir mobile games aur other apps. Thoda childish lagega ye suggestion, but practical hai, taki ek family man apni responsibility ko samjh sake. Nind se jagane ke liye aise shock diye jaa sakte hai.
spend more time at night with husband and try to be intimate. Because some men need physical relations.it lead to avoid phone addiction.
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Often during a wifes pregnancy husbands tend to get involved in affairs with someone else I hope that is not the case in ur situation Until he realizes from the bottom of his heart that he needs to spend time with u n ur daughter no one can really say or do much For now u should have a direct conversation with him Tell him that u too need his time love n care Tell him that spending all my time just raising the child is making me feel lonely n more stressed Or ucould also try this when hes home u should also just sit n use ur phone Hand the daughter over to him ask him to take care of her Hopefully with time he too will fulfill his responsibilities beautifully
these are simple things which will solve eventually soon...so dont spoil ur good life for these small things...try to divert him and live happy else u r the one who is going to lose
Gaming is addiction.. you need to take ur husband to a psychiatric consult..
Which games does he play..I too want that game in my phone
Quietly add a proxy to the guy's phone , he'll get banned on most online games for using vpn proxy, and those who don't ban him his latency woll skyrocket to unplayably stage. He'll then quit fingering his ohone and focus on you.