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It takes a gemologist to identify a diamond.....there is a proverb in my local language that a monkey doesn't undertand the value of a pearl necklace

Women : Why don't men share their feelings? *Men share their feelings* Also woman : Ewwwwwwwww

You are very lucky, middle finger 🖕 to your family, it’s him who will stay by your side till death does you apart. Feel proud for him, or else it takes second for a man to change and then there won’t be any room for return

You need to grow up. Try improving your understanding of relationships, men et all. If at 27 you allow your cousins to make fun of your spouse because he is emotional, you sound more problematic than what you are describing as his emotional attachment behaviour. Never allow others to decide and decode your relationships.

Lucky you 🧿🧿🧿 where do you find these type of men’s nowadays. Darling just preserve him

If women cry people say it’s emotional connection If men cry people will say immature .. y can’t there show emotions?? There are human also.. just support ur husband.. if people joke just scold them..

This is not problem it's just sensitivity...you are blessed with a good life...may be he had something in past so that he became a emotional person...I too started crying while seeing any emotional scene in movies since my childhood...

Sis is suffering from success 😂

One out of 1 million ladies get this kind good husband. You are lucky

When there is no problem Creat a problem. . . .

He loves you beyond and hence those emotions don’t worry all that will fade in few years if you keep telling him that he’s behaving like a baby.. since it’s newly married phase and you are his top priority he’s becoming extremely emotional.. priorities change and people change.. you’ll see the change once kids come into picture

Hahahha when men dont express the feelings women complain and when he is expressing his feelings to you again you are complaining.

Anddd YOU are saying that he's immature.??!! Hmmm, interesting.. 🫡

You are blessed. The man you are complaining about is the one many women only dream of. Ask someone who has spent years with an emotionally unavailable, stone-hearted man. You cry your heart out, fight for the relationship and still don’t get the slightest reaction from him. “Sir pitt-pitt ke mar jao, phir bhi unke muh se ek ‘aah’ na nikle.” Sometimes you wonder if you fell in love with a human or a stone. Here the only thing you can do is Love him , value him , understand his emotions and yes make him understand calmly not to show his emotional side to others . And bdway why care about such cousins and society , they will never ever be with you at your difficult times .

Ab jab tum itna lucky ho ki tumko sensible and emotional husband mila hai..aur tumhari baton se lagta hai ki wo tumko bahut pyar bhi karta hai..bahan sab kuchh Mila hai tumko lekin lekin lekin...fir bhi problem to nikalni hi hai. Be happy dear.. .u are so lucky to have him...aaj ke time me aisa insan chirag lekar dundane se bhi nahi milta . Aur jo log majak bana rahe hai hai na simply jalte hai tumse. All the best!

It’s surprising that this kind of behaviour by a man is being considered a problem. It’s absolutely nothing. Just as some women are stone hearted, some men are very emotional. It shows your partner’s need of a strong bonding with you. Kindly attend to it and enjoy its perks in your matrimony. If I speak from a psychological perspective, it can be due to ‘absent mother syndrome.’ In simple words when an infants mother is not present to attend his/her physical or emotional needs in the early childhood due to whatever reasons, child feels abandoned. when this happens again and again the child develops this syndrome. This is not uncommon and it’s absolutely normal to look for that ‘absent mother’ in the wife, Provided he’s fulfilling rest of his duties well as a partner. Also, I would like to add that it’s very insensitive of your family to react that way. As a partner it’s your duty to handle the situation in a more mature manner so that your husband doesn’t get hurt by the so called insensitive jokes of your family members. With time he’ll be out of this, provided you support him emotionally and socially in front of people.

Your hubby is emotionally dependent on you . Some men are like that . Talk with him frankly and tell him getting emotional ok in 4 walls of the bedroom but control when others are there. Because they say things about him which you don't like. Lastly feel luck you got such a hubby. There are men who treat females like door mat.

he has some fears in his mind thats why he seeks validation from you that You not going leave him ... It is good that he is shows his emotions and tears come in his eyes ... Nothing bad at all ... Its good sign , He has empathy ... He feels the pain ... You should be happy that a man you god is a good heart and good soul . Loves you ... God bless you both

He is emotionally starved(maybe because of a previous trauma) and you are everything he thinks of, be it in intimacy, low times or anything else. He seems to be a good person, don't let your relatives fool you.

Calling a caring, emotional husband childish, is ignorance dressed as humor. Real power is in staying soft and loving in a world that mocks it.

“Oh No ! My wallet is too small for my 50s and my diamond shoes are too tight”

U got a green flag guy.. Dont ever think of leaving him

Yes, I would suggest you consider a psychologist, but not for your husband for yourself. Since you are such a loving and emotional husband, but you are only concerned about what your cousins or family members think, but not how caring an emotional your husband is towards you and others as well. Such people are generally very soft hearted and they have very pure soul. 

It's rare to see a man who is not afraid to show his emotions and his inner child. You are lucky to have him as your partner. Please ignore everyone who thinks otherwise! Secretly I'm sure all those women are envious of you!

I never commented on any of the stories I have read through so many Corporate Stories & Confessions stories but yeh wala to sabse ganda hai. Sala admi sab kuch deta hai bus ek cheez manga hai in return "the Loyalty" aur vohi commit karne main lardkiyon ki fat jati hai. So nothing on you as this is very natural attribute shown by many immature/non understanding girl. But husband has self confidence issue and you can only fill this gap by showing exceptional commitment when it matters most. No other way out when it comes to these kind of things as trust grows gradually. but it is a good sign that he speaks to you on this matter otherwise he could have also have this feeling for ever and no telling at all.

This type of man is one in crore a kohinoor diamond you are damm lucky

I would say only one thing "you are luckiest women in the world" u got green forest 🥰

What is wrong with a person expressing their vulnerability. That is not childish at all! Anyone being uncomfortable with that is the childish one

Gazab halat hai matlab Kisi mein koi kami nahi to uske emotional angle lekar Khelo

Pati pyar kare aur palko pe rakhe to logo ki jalti bahut hai. So chill & just snap at them whenever they say such things.

My husband got tear in eyes even in some reality show his favourite contestants gets a emotion review. My dad also cries when he gets emotional. Nothing wrong in this. Nothing immature, nothing psychological.. just he is sensitive, he has his emotions. U r lucky and treasure him. Protect him ❤️

when you dont see an issue, create one!

Defend your husband like a shield in front of this family members who call him rotra!! Protect him because he’s your husband

So you think you’re a nanni kaki at 27 even when married, and you think he’s much older than you? Let me tell you, boo-boo baby he’s not giving Dada Ji vibes not even Abu vibes. He’s young enough. First, convince yourself that you’re not a kaki, and he’s not old. sharing every private moment with everyone is fine but expressing in front of wife is immature. Actually you deserve a chapri boy with red and green dyed hair then maybe we’ll all finally feel thand peh gai kaleje mein moment. And please, find yourself a psychiatrist. A psychologist alone might not be enough to treat ur keera. I’m not going to cheat ??? I wonder how he tolerating this all.

Understand his worth before it's too late, some people wish everyday for what you have, start to value it. By reading your post one thing I can say very clearly he's got no issues he's a man not childish the only person that's immature and childish is you my dear. God bless you both.

जिस स्त्री के सामने उसका पार्टनर रो सके ,अपने सारी भावनाएं व्यक्त कर सके ,उसको उसे संभाल कर रखना चाहिए क्योंकि सामाजिक अवधारणा एक मर्द को रोने तक नहीं देती है। आप सौभाग्यशाली हो जो आपको ऐसा पति मिला है जो आपके सामने अपनी सारी भावनाएं उड़ेल देता है । इसलिए अपने रिश्ते की इज्जत करो और दूसरों पर ध्यान मत दो।

Dil.ka saaf aadmi hai. Haraami pana bhi nahin hai. Bas aise logo ko society mein survive karna thoda tough hoga hai. Professionally agar theek manage kar leta hai to dikkat nahin.

Who told you that men don't cry or feel emotional! I cry when I see emotional scenes on the TV or see people cry in real! I can't stop laughing when people fall. It does not matter if the person was embarrassed or broke body parts! I just can't stop laughing! This is how some people are. Period . Your husband seems to suffer from abandonment issues. Don't make fun, don't make a big deal out of it. Just talk to him about it!

He has faced a tough phase before he met you it's the separation from his first love that's making him teary eyed

The problem this women is facing : 1) My chicken is too tender 2) My lobstera is too buttery 3) My cola is too fizzy 🤡 One person trash is another persons treasure.

Your life is good. He needs emotional touch that is really okay and also positive for you. Stop nit picking and enjoy every moment with him. You should feel lucky for this and be grateful. If any confusion just follow this page and read each confessions. Always remember stable and happy life is the one where you feel bored but that's the best life you can have. You can also read all the comments that might change your perspective.

are these problems ? women has always some sort of problems they have problems to every solution you are so lucky to get such a husband provide him the emotional security, love him, care him as much as possible.

He is emotional and sensitive and I think that's okay. He cares about you and loves you. Bhai you are lucky. He is emotionally dependent on you. Kindly don't think about society and think the wrong way yaar.

🥲what did you suggest ?? You can completely ask belt treatment for you ... Tab he khush hoge ?? 😑 Take a chill , you should be more than happy that your husband cares for you . Simple as it is . Itna complicated kyu Krna .?

Your husband is an emotional sensitive man, which not a problem. . He just need to balance his emotions. Unke kisi relative ki death, ya koi past breakup ho sakta hai, in psychological term it's called fear of abandonment . Logo ke chhor ke jaane ka dukh. If you are thinking about psychological councelling, then ok, but it's but don't go to psychiatrist. Mai is problem se guzra hu to mai samjh sakta hu, bas mindfulness ki practice se emotional balance aa jata hai. But past ke trauma resolve karne ke liye councelling ya fir hypnosis, NLP , Eft aise kayi tarah ke options hai, jinme se kisi bhi 1 ko choose kar ke easily balance out kiya jaa sakta hai. Bas isko kisi bimari ya kisi lacking ki tarh treat mat karna, just ye intention rakhna ki aap apne husband ko unki life ka ek best gift dene jaa rahe hai. Aur ye kaam ek best freind ban kar ke karenge to aur easy aap k liye rahega. . All the very best.

Is pure situation mein PROBLEM kahan hai? Acha insan hai aur thoda emotional and caring hai.

By These confessions , she is exposing herself. She need someone less emotional.

He obviously has some attachment trauma from past. And no he is not immature or child like. He is just sensitive and emotional. But you being his partner seems to me is very immature and overly egomaniac. That man trusts you and hence has got his heart on his sleeves for you. Be thankful. And dont make fun of him. Gawar

Some people are just sensitive by nature, and that’s normal, not a flaw.

u r lucky.Now dou u want a Gunda type with 2.5 kg haath like sunny Deol?chill baby.

Seems like a nice & innocent person. Not everyone has equal control over emotions. Relatives, Friends & Family Members are all third persons, don't let them speak about your husband in such & such manner, fight for him, as he would fight for you. Strengthen your relationship, cause, the only person that will stay with you until you depart earth is our spouse.

Value this man. Cherish his presence in your life. To get ‘loved’ is a privilege. Count your stars. You are blessed. Good luck. Family. Don’t bother much. You can always ignore what you wish to

Ap world ki sab se lucky woman ho apko jis chiz par proud feel krna chaiye uss par ap sawal kar rahe ho

Ask those who laugh at him to shut up, hold his hand in public, whenever he has tears and when he is certain you will stay - tears will vanish

People say it's normal, you are lucky bla blah but reality is that it's not normal for 99% of the Men. Extreme emotional behavior can come from past trauma, such as an abusive childhood, broken past relationships, accidents etc. Try to know more about his life history or ask him honestly or visit a psychologist. It's only been a year since you guys are known to each other and he is already exhibiting extreme vulnerable behaviour. You will be very careful dealing with such a person to avoid harm's way. Even if someone makes a joke about you cheating on him, he might go to the extreme path. I'd be very careful about it unless I know him better.

Agar wo emotion dikha rha hai toh wo bhi problem hai, agar tumhe nhi dikhayega toh kisse dikhaye.. Ek baar hurt kar ke dekho, itna shaant ho jayega ki emotional awaaz sunne ko taras jaogi.. Khush raho, bahut sahi husband mila hai.

The one who is more sensitive he's more romantic be happy with your hubby

Check his zodiac. He may be a water binder like vruchik rasi, cancer rasi. So don't worry. They are slightly emotional when compared with other men.

Men are always a little immature but you got a gem of a person. He is expressive and sensitive. You are blessed.

Sb kuch acha Mila hai...usme bhi dikkat hai

I am surprised, people laugh at such a honest post and genuinely asking for suggestions

He's a sensitive person and you're not . It is what it is . There is no problem in being either kind . As far as nitpicking goes, im sure he can list out 10 things in 10 seconds that he dislikes/tolerates/finds embarassing about u too . You'll never find the perfect person, and u wont ever become a perfect person to somebody either, thats how humans are, full of flaws and imperfections. Learn to accept gracefully before u regret losing a good marriage . Ur family needs to be told to have some respect for others . I have never seen people mock their son in law in south asian countries. Our people are generally VERY patriarchal If u need a certified counsellor, whatsapp me +91 9819850818

Flex karne ka tareeka thoda casual nahi ho gaya ? 🍌🐥

sis if he is showing you his tears then he truly loves you and cares for you, please support him and fight for him

It is absolutely ok for him to be like that towards you. But if you think this will make him vulnerable in other situations them get him join some competitive sport.

It's normal case no need of worrying he is emotional loving person please keep him .. you are lucky enough I'm also the same character very genuine person.....

My steak is too juicy and my wallet is too full !

He is a gem. A keeper :). Its such a sweet thing.

You are blessed …

He's just too much in love with you

You got a gem ..kadr karo

Seriously ‘women’ 🤯😶

Now listen carefully.. First check the dob of your hubby.. Is it 2,11,20,29 ? If it's one of these.. He's gonna be too emotional for so many things.. But at the same time such people are soft hearted.. He won't cheat u.. But if u ever try to leave him.. He won't be able to deal with that as he's too emotional to deal with.. As a life partner a sensitive person can be problematic at times.. But trust me if you'll love him and make him understand that he needs to change himself a bit for your better relationship.. It would be great for both of u!! U r lucky that your partner is like this.. I would consider myself the most luckiest person if I ever get a man like this..!

Your confession sounds more childish than ur husband. No one is perfect, he just seems to be emotionally high which is normal. Don't overthink and support him.

Is not it very common in a person? If the same thing could be done by a woman, then why not by a man?

He genuinely love u that's y he fear of losing u even in imagination ...u r so lucky that u got such a loving husband n person who cry isn't weak ..y care what others says ..

Lene k liye kya kya nhi karna padta hai😂😂

I think u have problem wit his age it seems , 6 yrs is not that big gap keep in mind bcoz it may arise in conflicts so am telling n u can stop ur cousins making fun of him n don’t allow. U r lucky that very soft hearted person u got, don’t avoid him n give back wt he deserve

He seems emotionally sensitive, affectionate, and deeply attached to you. Crying during emotional moments, missing you when you're away, or seeking reassurance are not necessarily signs of immaturity. The teasing from relatives may be making his behavior seem more problematic than it actually is. He is a caring husband who is comfortable expressing his emotions. And, men also need to show their emotions to keep their sanity, I believe.

He might have some abandonment issues however, he is expressing his emotions perfectly well. Every person here may have some issue or some pain which is brought in front at certain times. It may be an insecurity or maybe just fears. Don't worry about it much.

He is very much emotionally attached to you. Care him and don’t let anyone making fun of him. Also make sure his balls are empty all the time

He is in love with you. He needs your emotional feedback and reciprocal love. These are not flaws these are indicators that he has a kind heart. Enjoy the time and reciprocate the feelings

Congratulations you got a man able to express his emotions and you should also be grateful that he really loves you...and open up in front of you.

Completely normal. You are blessed. Don’t think too much and reciprocate his true love.

I think he is a good man who is not trying to be a tough guy. Why do you complain?Because he is showing his affection publicly? Not at all wrong. He can always express his feelings

You are a lucky woman to have a emotionally sensitive man,which is rare.. ther3 is nothing wrong in showing emotions , the problem is with your cousins who were making fun of him. Imagine if he is going somewhere alone leaving you behind and you cried while dropping him off,it would have been so natural rather those same people would praise you for loving him so much. Just stay happy with him. Don't listen to what other is saying.

Your thinking is problematic.. not his behaviour..

If you're husband cries in front of you means he trust you and attached to you Man don't show emotions openly or easily to anyone unless if they trust them in that case you are really lucky cherish him best wishes for your future

Being emotional isn't a weakness or a psychological issue Madam... It's the ability to feel deeply, care sincerely, and connect wholeheartedly. Emotions are an asset, and with age, you'll understand their true value. Many people spend their lives searching for someone who is emotionally available and genuinely cares. You have that, yet you see it as a problem. Sometimes, it feels like some people can never be happy, no matter what they have, because they're too focused on what's missing to appreciate what's already there...

Some one can be little more emotional and soft hearted it is very normal and completely okay nothing to worry about it. May be you are his comfort zone that's why he feels very vulnerable around you. If it's only infront of or with you then it's a good thing. Be his comfort zone so what if he does childish behavior some time it's the way to express his love and comfort and happyness with you. And the cousin thing it's okay to make fun of brother in law in a funky way. Until unless it's in limit of fun and not insulting. You are over thinking stop that because nothing to worry about this.

He is pure heart person that why he is emotional but once his heart is broken there is another side which you don’t want to

He has a clear and innocent heart.. you are lucky to have him in your life.. I too have a very emotional heart.. I can feel his emotions...

Me bilkul baccha nahi hu na rota hu

He might had a past which made him broke and he is healing with your company. You are blessed and don’t encourage comments from anyone about him.

There's a famous saying in Hindi - " Gadhe ko zafraan ki kya kadar" Value what you have rather than complaining about it. Show off his love for you to the one who are laughing at his innocence. Immerse yourself deeply into his emotions. If he is crying then pat on his shoulder and hold him closer. Let me grow into you while you grow into him. Trust me, people crave for these things and there are many girls who are literally begging for emotions in guys. Again - value what you have.

If he is really behaving without acting then I can say you are lucky. If he is acting in one sense then you are in trouble. Everyone has two faces.

Just be happy live happy enjoy your life happily. No need for any consultants or consultation to any Doctor.

There are men who really cares!! but mostly the wrong person ??? Aand here people expect more , be happy 😁

Left him and then see, he will cry day in say out then he accept and then he will be emotionless. He share what he feel is natural. Check this horoscope he must be ruled by moon. which make him emotionally.

What's wrong if man cries.. my friendly advise to you... never make fun or leave a man with child like heart..