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Submit ConfessionGender: Male10 May 2026 at 6:56 am
#C27079 M 35 Im self employed and saved enough money to have a peaceful life till i die I got married 1 year back Before that i use to live alone my parents die at young age. I have no bad habits always wants to save and invest money so i can retire early ( invested in various assets to build corpus yeah some of that inherited from parents) My wife has a big family and i lived most of the life alone. I love to spend time with my wife i feel she completes me i dont need anyone but that's not the case with her some times she says i manifested to have a big family an outgoing husband Family where all the festivals are celebrated (I'm an atheist). She's just there with me but i think she's not happy. She wants to live close to her family but we are almost 500km away from her parents. There is also no intimacy between us i mean there is s_x but no bond no zeal(if that's the right word) sometimes i want to leave everything behind and go to a peaceful place (1 small room near nature away from all the chaos of this world ) where i can have peace. P.S I have seen people making fun of things which are posted here. 1 kind suggestion dont make fun of anyone
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If its not it can be worked upon to certain level only.
Get a marriage counselling to understand what's lacking in relationship.. if you say there physical intimacy but it feels mechanical or there is no joy or bonding in that moment then surely some thing is lacking.. better would be go for marriage counseling
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Try to build emotional connection first, both spend time together only in the lap of nature, lost charm will come back
Understanding each other & emotional bonding is most important in married life. I think it's lacking here. Suggest to go on a small trip vacation for eight days in the nature's paradise... Kashmir..heaven on the earth. Rest everything will be good.
Girls age matter a lot and generation gap.... Spend time and take her out daily eve make her comfortable around you.... You will feel what you manifest like this
Intimacy and all above issues will not come back to back. What’s missing in your life with your partner is Emotional connection. Try to build that first through talking to her or by mutual way if it’s not working try therapy and try to start strength training your body also all these things works.
I guess she will not understand ur pain