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After reading the post I don’t think you are married to the best man any girl can get. He will do anything to make you smile - looks like he isn’t

Reading your post, it sounds like the issue isn't that your husband is a bad person, it's that he's meeting your practical needs while completely missing your emotional needs. Both can exist at the same time. Many people would consider a financially responsible, caring husband a blessing, but emotional intimacy, affection, communication, romance, and physical connection are also important parts of a marriage. Wanting to feel loved, desired, heard, and prioritized does not make you demanding or ungrateful. The fact that you're in a long distance marriage may be making the disconnect feel even stronger. When physical presence is limited, emotional connection becomes even more important. If every conversation turns into finances and responsibilities, it's understandable that you'd start feeling lonely despite being married. Before concluding that the marriage was a mistake, it may be worth exploring why he avoids emotional and physical intimacy. Some people struggle to express affection due to upbringing, stress, low libido, depression, past experiences, or simply because they don't realize how deeply their partner is hurting. Since you've already communicated your feelings multiple times, I would suggest having one serious conversation focused not on gifts or romance, but on the future of the relationship itself. Let him know that this is no longer about "overthinking", it's about a core need that is affecting your mental health and your view of the marriage. Given that you're also going through IVF, couples counseling would be a very good idea before moving further into parenthood. A child may add joy to a marriage, but it usually doesn't fix emotional disconnection between partners. Your feelings are valid. A marriage needs more than financial support and responsibility, it also needs emotional presence, affection, and partnership. I hope your husband is willing to acknowledge that and work on it with you.

You need to be clear that emotional connection is required in the marriage, not optional. If he can’t meet that, involve a counsellor.

Hmm. Ever asked him what's the issue why no s** together. I agree sometimes money is not everything. Women wants that pampering from spouse 😀 Talk with frankly about these things. Still if he doesn't change then sorry to say you got married with a man who has strong or might have strong Saturn traits . Who believes in duty 🤔 responsibility fulfillment love , not physical intimate relationship lov s** Is he OK physically does he have any issue which he doesn't want to share or feel shy to share ask him frankly about all these things. Any ailments ? Which affects his mood interests , and performance like diabetes or hormonal issue like low manly testosterone hormones? Get blood test on him You can naturally boost testosterone , if you are non vegetarian. Yes, whole eggs can help support and increase testosterone levels in men. The yolks are rich in cholesterol, which the body relies on to synthesize testosterone, as well as Vitamin D and selenium, both of which are critical for healthy hormone production. One boiled egg daily. If low testosterone is the reason. Just talk frankly with your hubby to know the root cause. Any emotional trauma as a child etc.... Also tell him to exercise for good blood circulation. 20 to 25 min of jogging alternate days. Will be good . Muscle also needs rest so do it alternate days.

Aap ka luck hi kharab hai log chate hai ki un ko romantic wife beautiful wife miley ek ye hai ki in ko bagwan ne itni khoobsurat wife di hai aur ye ap se door reh raha hai Bad luck Man

Give him crushed garlic with khazoor n honey, ED problem hai clearly

When you're struggling with a problem, it can feel overwhelming. But remember that our perspective changes with time and experience. Often, when a bigger challenge comes along, the smaller problem that once seemed so important fades into the background. And when life presents even greater challenges, many of the worries that consumed us are forgotten altogether. Try not to let today's problem define your outlook. Focus on what you can control, keep moving forward, and trust that what feels huge now may one day seem much smaller than it does today.

nothing is a mistake! you are just overthinking! if one wants to stay happy he/she will! and if you can't change the situation accept the situation ! sometime khushi khud se hoti hai kisi aur se nhi ! in the end to yahi hota hai, phr sab chale jaate hai aapko khud ko khush rakhne k liye zimmedar khud hote hai

You both have different ways of expressing things.. either embrace it get ready for the relationship to go down south..

Is he gay by any chance? Have you done some research regarding this? Maybe married you because of peer pressure

Do some naughtiest things

Research on him Why he is not interested to be physical with you at this age and stage May be someone else also there where he’s connected emotionally and physically.

How he is best? Because he transfers money to your account right? He has some problem, go to doctor and have consultation

Sub se zyada zaroori hota physical hona usme jo khushi hai duniya k koi paise mein nahi garam garam cheeza khilao usku karne pe majboor hojaye

Short n simple solution divorce him immediately no 2nd thought story ends and live happily stress free n look for some one else

If ur husband is fit n yet remains physically n emotionally distant then perhaps he is in a relationship with someone else or maybe because of the stress in his life Talk to ur husband properly try to understand what is truly in his heart make him understand give it some time n then decide what to do next Bringing peace to the soul joy to the heart N a smile to the lips is not something just anyone can do

#marriagehutiapa

OMG !

You started with, I am married to the best man ????? And then you hv written he is not interested in me.

Welcome to the reality. This is not a fairytale that you would get any princess treatment. He's prolly not attached to you & might be having an affair outside. I'm assuming you too might be having one so..

Your 1st para is contradicting...

Why did you said.. any girl would want to have a husband as him.. actually no one will like to have a husband as him... What kind of happiness do you have in your life ? Nothing you have no happiness.. ..

Think twice before having a baby through ivf.not a good idea. Giving money and having zero emotional connection with a 30 years young lady is not a good sign to continue

Why are u still staying first of all.

Damn

Please dont get pregnant with this man!