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See..I know it won't sound good...but trust me ..if he never respects your parents ignore it... because your life is actually good...there are people living with their spouse in a way bad condition that you...here people will give you knowledge that respect is more n all...see it is important but if your husband has some issues...see your mistakes also you also might be doing something...males never put in so much into marriage. However, he is doing way more than what many husband's fail to do...he is a good guy, forget whatever he says cz your life is actually good and even if you separate, then what??? Stay with him...

Things I would suggest: 1. Consider seeing a psychologist or a couples counsellor together 2. Have an honest conversation with your husband. Everything you’ve written here should be shared with him. From your post, it doesnt sound like you hate him or have stopped caring about him. In fact, it seems like you are hurt by certain words, criticism, and emotional wounds that were never properly addressed. Physical intimacy is often affected when emotional needs remain unmet. Instead of avoiding the topic, try explaining how his words and behaviour have impacted you over the years and why you’re finding it difficult to reconnect. Communication may not solve everything overnight, but it is probably the best place to start. A marriage of 10 years with shared memories, mutual care deserves an honest conversation before giving up. Do it for yourself, your relationship, and your future

This was like, Avoid watching / enjoying whole movie where just one dialogue is hurting you.

I am amazed and also curious to know why do you still love him? If I ask myself I won’t be able to love him anymore. I am seeing this recently in my family circle as well and it’s appalling for me to know that those ladies don’t want a divorce even though they themselves claim that they are physically and mentally exhausted and are also hurt very deeply and also they earn same as husband . I am not able to ask them their reason but I genuinely want to know the reason and perspective to stay in the marriage.

Just to let you know, this is every house's story. To me it looks like men feel powered by criticizing their wife. It is a good sign that he initiates patch up after every fight. Deep down he knows, he is torturing you. Tell him his criticism is putting extreme pressure on you physically and mentally. He has to change his attitude. If possible go for counselling together.

One thing I know Just talking can fix your 90% problem.

Marriage is based on trust and understanding,talk with him openly regarding this,you both need to sit together to solved this problem

If you really need a break just tell me you have to do some sadhana for 108 days, as he is having ego, first fall on his feet and tell wife has to get blessings from husband and start your sadhana this will give you 108 days gap and also self reflection and rest to your body... With time you can sort the things out

I am correlating my experience. Very well written.

Start a new chapter in life before it's too late. And also allow your husband do the same. Let him get what he wants.

Is your birthday 8,17,25 ??

May be he is planning for the 4 th kid. Ask him to reduce the frequency than saying No. Give him more responsibilities to bring up the kid. Eat idly and getti chutney together often.

May be he has high libido, or believes in keeping the flames of intimacy alive till the Grey days of life . May be because he said those things about your mother , mentally that's hurting you and you don't feel like getting intimate with him . Another reason would be hormonal changes because of which you don't give importance to intimacy after having 2 kids. Or mood swings 🙃 but as you are just 33 and not in mid 45 I think it's not hormonal issue but more of mind hurting issue. Because of his actions. They to talk with each other frankly on every matter including how you felt or feel when he says those things about your mother. If that doesn't help Both of you get an appointment with professional certified counselor. Don't ignore his intimacy needs , he can go seek it from outside marriage. Try to find a middle path . Like once when both feel like doing it . Yes I agree s** needs to be enjoyed by both its the most intimate time of couple in their private bedroom. But do make him aware of what you feel about his words behavior etc . Any other thing. Going outside marriage for pleasure is not right karmically , health point of view too.

Do not cut off from your husband Make him understand how u are feeling Give him a chance and make him understand

As you both love each other, physical relation plays an important role between you...there is a lot of age for being close...you are still in 30s...if you love him remember only the good things and try to forget the rest. Don't think that sex is the only reason that he is loving you..he is doing everything for you, just change your way of seeing him , but tell the things that hurt you...be positive always..why because I am also in the same situation. I changed my mind and I feel happy so I am telling you.

It happens your sub consious mind already overthought about him in negative way so whenever he comes closure you will discomfort. U should look him again & his love towards you, ask him to come near you keep your head on his shoulder cry & say everything truly a mature man will understand & make you comfort a desperate will fight back for s a x

U will definitely lose him and everything else unless u want to destroy everything. In a marriage a woman can make it or break it nd u r breaking it.

From your words, I think you are lucky to have such a good family, what you have is very rare now, so don't spoil it. Sometimes certain things need to be ignored. There will be many sick feminists here who will make you a rebel with their suggestions and spoil your family, so better be careful.

Superb . There are hell of of problems in everyone’s life and ur ur searching and creating own problems . In fight it’s common to argue and shout . Again u have to forget and keep moving . U keep him away and tomoro u dotn complain that he has gone with soemone or cheated u . U r digging ur own grave . All the best .

I can trigger u by saying u lost interest in same guy sorry.

When no emotions. Physical is immaterial In marriage. It's as good as over inside. Respect trust is main over any other intimacy. Not respecting ur parents is redflag itself what to do with physical intimacy with such guy When he is behaving this bad. Shame

I can see both of your astrological charts And can suggest you the exact solution

either you start having physical intimacy with him or he would find some thing out of marriage ... He will cheat ... So choice is Yours ... You want your marriage to end then take it legally or You doing the same in indirect way - You asking Your husband to go out of marriage and find his desires fullfilled , end is marriage ... So choice is Yours ... Legally if You end , then Man would not Bother you , You donot have lie or find excuses ... and if you want to live under the same roof then tell your husband that you donot to have physical initmacy with him and he can look for some body outside marriage and you have no problem ... choice is all yours ...

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Let him go for second marriage if u cannot fulfill his needs Every man has bad and good qualities Your husband is responsible loving and caring as well Though he has few negative qualities as well but that doesn't mean u refrain him from his marital relation and ignore his needs U are an overthinker and creating problems for yourself and your family Save your home before your husband lose interest in you and look for love outside home

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Nahin karna to mat karo lekin kahin aur muh at maar lena. Control rakho apne par.

If you dont give what he wants then he will go outside to get that thing.. When he gets that you will be hurt first...

First u detach from him and later he will start, in few days u will post that ur hby is changed or he not love me anymore. Ur no is first step of breaking relation and detachment from his side too. Don't challenge man's ego

Who's gonna tell her?

You are Demisexual or sapiosexual.

You guys getting ready for Affairs Society Association 10years Wedlock... Exchuast and Searching for 🔑.. Ensure Children Future Concerns..

He won't starve if he doesn't get home-cooked food, but he'll just go to a hotel and buy some. Know what I mean?

Don't do this. One point of time u will get in to huge fight coz of this. Mark my words. Ur in end of marriage life if you continue to do the same. All fights leads to this only

Get ready for divorce

U both fighting in day and doing great sex in night

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Hi dm me I Can help u

be ready to witness he having affair with someone and do not make noise when it happens as it is ur mistake of pushing him away...he may even plan to divorce u and remarry someone