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Submit ConfessionGender: Female8 May 2026 at 11:56 am
#C27056 31F, I got married recently and before marriage the boy told he is having well paying job and his father told he is having his own home and properties. Later on after marriage we get to know the boy is jobless and father doesnt have home. They stay on rent and also no property, they all lied just to get married Now the boy is crying and telling he will settle down everything now please guide me what should I do ??
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So you buy him a house & job 😅😅
Forgive him..Build property together.. get rich together.. bonding will increase and its ur responsibility also to be a part of his struggle..
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Leave him and be the gold digger you were born to be... It will save the man you are married to.
So you married with properties and job ?? 🤔🤔
So u married for job and House? U sold ur life for job and House ?
Easy to promise things. Escape if you can. Or you can give him a chance and lose your daily peace sailing on hope.
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Apart from these lies how abt his character? How he behaves/respects u?? If in these case he is green flag then u can continue and both grow together and get settle. Dont plan for a kid immediately. If not then u have to decide what and how to proceed with him
Set up a boutique for him then he wil get rich by flirting some other rich customer
You both buy a house on your joint names.Ask him to get a job immediately and pay EMI's. If not possible, pay rent together.
Phir bolte hai dowry is crime....
If boy and his family is good in nature.. stay with him..house and property you can buy tomorrow...
Can you tell about yourself first, please. This seems plot twist
Ask him to do the all House hold works. And observe
How convenient it is for the commentors to victim shame the women when the guy has clearly begun the relationship with a major lie...would u comment the same if the lady was your sister?
Again men in the women dominated field 😂.. ( when they lie about their pasts)
Don't marry a broke man. He will start drinking after marriage.
Were you blind before marriage, Or did you just fall for the money shown by the boy? Everyone normally do a background check
If you like him and the person is compatible then continue your marriage life. Don't think all these deviations. Job and house is a temporary things
But you married for love naa ?? Where Iove gone now ? .
You have to think before
If he is genuinely trying to improve, give him a chance. If not, rethink your future.
Why don't you build life together?
For people asking her did she marry for money, that is not right. That is victim blaming. Forget the house the dude doesn't even have a job. Its clearly a case of marriage scam. She is the victim, not the other way around.
Just reverse the gender and see. If after wedding you have said you don't want to birth babies, then? They would kick you out of the house
Start from scratch build everything together am sure it's doable if both earn
Think if he can as he promised and give time. If not move on as I don't know whether you are employed or studied etc. or you work and earn. You decide based on your actual things there.
Go back to your father’s place, give 6 months time for your spouse to settle down get a good job so he can run a family if not file for marriage annulment. What they’ve done is fraud not just lies.
So sorry, there is no provision in law to file case, for not having property 🤣🤣
That’s a serious breach of trust. Don’t ignore it or rush into forgiveness just because he’s apologizing now. Take a step back, verify if he’s genuinely willing to change (actions, not words), and involve your family for support. If you feel cheated or unsafe, consider legal advice as well. Most importantly......don’t compromise your self-respect. Decisions taken now will shape your future. Anything more else let me know. N I shall be as ur well wisher
This is again the 1001th time I'm saying this... Don't trust anyone especially from an arranged marriage context... Get the background verified .. independently or using a credible detective agency... And ... Always Remember... It's not about job or property... It's about the lie being told... A snake can shed it's skin, but it always remains a snake. So you have 2 options either stay or go... If you stay then do level setting involve both of your families.... And if you leave then definitely consult a lawyer... There's nothing more disgusting than liars...
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Marriage started with a lie means what's the point? It's very dangerous . What's the point?
Lying and marrying you is not acceptable. How come you married him without going through a precheck about his job or own house ? Didn't your parents check about him? It was your side fault as well not enquiring properly about him and his family. If you think you can forgive him, seperate and live temporarily. Ask him to find a permanent job and earn. See if he is honest in that. Then you can start to live with him together, if you think that he will be honest in the future!!
Work hard and look after him. Try to get promotion at work so you can have a nice house and property.
Relationship built on lies are never long lasting... Leave him..
Why its always boy's responsibility to have house and earn too.
Support him ..
Leave him
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Why u don't want to stay with him for making dream into true like own house and all are u forget the meaning of marriage pheras?
Did you run any checks pre marriage? Looks like you did not.
Us n jo b kaha. Ap n kia chexk kia
Marry me, I've multiple properties 💋
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If he and he's family person good means ok,otherwise they think ur the gold digger please leave them.
Give him a chance
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Marry him. Do it for the countless women who are also unemployed and dont do anything in society and still get married
Trust him once.
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Marriage is built on trust, and this started with deliberate deception. This is not a small misunderstanding but a serious breach of trust. If someone lies about their job, house, and financial status just to get married, it's a major fraud. At the same time, don't make an emotional decision overnight. Collect all relevant information, consult your family and an experienced lawyer, and then take appropriate legal action.
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Be a hero woman, be a true feminist, work hard, uplift him, provide all the facilities and maintain him. Able bodied woman like you should never shy away from providing him the livelihood .
Mubarak ho ap ke saat prank huva hai 😂
Dowry
Divorce
31 age and still digging 😂
Happened is happened....make him to fulfill the commitment.... don't make him to sleep......
Leave him
Please don't marry.. Its not about money, but about a man who is lying
If it's true that's sad, no wonder girl families are asking for payslips, IT returns, Property documents etc.
Wait for some time
Please leave
😂😂😂well done boy.
It's your side mistake in believing all those lies...
This clearly means u ppl were fools simple any one atleast checks some thing or other and job or business is important n compulsory to know to survive in life
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So he married you on false pretences. If you did not lie about anything before marriage and only he did its grounds for divorce. Get out before you end up having to raise a man child and his family. You’ll end up working outside, doing all the household work, giving birth and looking after a child and catering to him. 3 full time jobs. Too many cases like this I’ve seen. RUN while you are still young
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The same thing happens the other way around too. A girl claims she's a virgin, but after marriage the husband finds out she lied. Then suddenly he's expected to just forget it, accept it, and move on. If he decides to get a divorce because of that deception, he's the one who ends up paying alimony. Women are quick to call out double standards when it suits them, but stay silent when the situation is reversed. They know exactly how to play the victim card when things don't go their way. And what if the man doesn't own a house and is living on rent? Why is the entire burden of buying a home automatically placed on him? If a house is so important, then build it together. Help him save, invest, and purchase one instead of expecting him to provide everything alone.
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Gaand pe laat maro saale pe jhutha bnda hai pura apka
So many people supporting the fraud
छोड़ दो उस साले गरीब को, गरीब की हिम्मत कैसे हुई शादी
it's seems you're a gold digger
Koi itna ch*tiya kaise ho sakta hai
Divorce him not that he dnt hv house n job but for cheating n breaking trust
Go girl always looking for money and property
All the Puslims r recommending to leave the partner. It shows all these pigs r waiting for separation.. These people are cancer to the human life style
Leave him… once a liar will be always liar.
Laanat on liars
I dont know why you married for money..... u had your past and yu hid your past , u got what was coming... now u can leave him divorce and give him momey