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You are only 27!! If you trust you are beautiful the world will see the beauty in you. More than looks how you carry yourself matters and your kindness, intelligence, loyalty these are the things matter. That BOY is just using you, throw him away and focus on your career and loving yourself the right MAN will come at the right time.

Pls don’t think or tell yourself you are medium/ ugly . That’s not how you should express. Beauty is in the eyes of beholder. I am 37, divorced due to incompatibility issues , one engagement broken - the guy cheated on me . These things can happen with anyone irrespective of how outer self is. If I like a guy - my friend does not find him attractive and the ones my friends find attractive I don’t. Everybody is somebody’s person and even if not it’s ok. I understand you feel lonely but I’d suggest join some hobby , find what you like and get involved in those workshops and classes because there you will meet like minded people. The more you chase or run behind love the more it’s difficult to find. Also 70-30 is not the right way to go. If anything then do 50-50. It should be equal. Equal efforts too. Don’t be in half partnership or something is better than nothing formula. I’d suggest if you can afford then pls do a solo trip (have you watched movie Queen? If not then pls do) I was always someone who would wait for others to make plans. I have few friends only and those are married. But the day I took a solo trip and stayed in hostels and made new friends I realised this is Me. I loved it so much. It really changes you! Also I was 0 animal person but cats started coming in my life and now I have pets too! Believe me the bring so much happiness and unconditional love in your life. If you cannot adopt an animal then go visit a shelter and spend time there . Honestly what took me out of all this is when I became attached to animals. Life is too short to be unhappy. We all have our days but then try to always sleep and begin your day with grateful heart. You are able to do 70-30 , some people don’t even have that much money . You feel you are ugly but think about those who are fighting a health battle / acid attack survivors / cancer patients who go bald. Honestly if you are healthy that’s the biggest blessing. Right now I am typing this message - imagine if my thumb was crooked or fractured that’s when I’d realise its importance . We don’t know what we have when we have it. As long as you are healthy , working , have a roof over your head , money to spend - you are blessed. Some people marry the love of their life and get divorced , some marry but within few months have seen the husband or wife dying due to health issue n then the person is again lonely? Try to be happy being yourself and you will find love. Join like minded workshops / hobby places / dating apps - you will find your person.

In India, it is very difficult for a person with skin colour or disability to find a life partner. The external appearance is more important than the inner beauty. Rest, you should not lose hope, something better will definitely happen for you.

I m so sorry for you, i understand this skin colour complex and you end up pouring everything you have on bouy thinking they may leave you. Listen girl' 27 is nothing in this era. You can marry till 33 also. You use the same money on ur grooming join gym Makeurslef muscled fit not like body builder but strength trained which is attractive,use money on you. Use proper nail care, Look at the grooming style of dark models etc You will knw How to present urslef Don't roam with that panam pudungara guy. He ll not marry you against his parents So dmt become 30 wasting time on him Simply cut him And start mew

Do not marry the person Be safe you will find your match

Don't take a decision of marriage in the pressure of society. You are only 27 that is not a age to force yourself to marry with a boy who doesn't value you. Later on you will regret but you won't have any options after that. It's better to marry late or not to marry rather than being with a wrong person. Never take your decision according to the society. Only you have to face the consequences later society will not. Take your time and think about it.

"Love can survive compromises, but not the absence of honesty, respect, and effort. If after two years the relationship still feels one-sided, make your decision based on your future and self-respect—not on the fear of being alone."

The right person won’t make you question your worth every day.

Are u actually so naive. If someone does this to ur sister or daughter U will agree

Report all scammers here directly for investigation, there's a good chance of recovery.

Be careful. Don't be get fooled again in desperation. Get close only with the person to whom you know very well like colleague, college/classmate , close friend of brother/sister. Other wise door se namaste .

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Girl! You are better off alone. Trust me a woman should leave at the first red flag. If a man doesn’t provide now he never will. Please love yourself and wait for the right person.

Why do you mention 70 30 soo many times...and just break up with him cuz he's not interested in you

Don't stay connected with this boy. You will definitely get someone better for sure. Don't be desperate and love yourself.

He is gonna dump you. Run.

Run !!!

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First thing you have self hurt urself stating you are ugly because the society says so .. So first take this blockade out that you are ugly .. say to urself you are beautiful and glamorous,change your attitude towards self .. society is nobody to tell what your value is .. Have that confidence in yourself that People get charmed not by your physical beauty but by your attitude , knowledge and skills .. Focus on your self worth and make career . Bank balance at end makes all the things in line .

Try to find a good friend's friendship is way more important than love and dusky doesn't ur ugly don't underestimate yourself

Dont let some one else to be on the driver seat in your life. Trust me you will get more option once you upload your profile in matrimony site. If you like him help him be a better version of himself, both of you can enroll for an AI training and study together, help him find a job. If he is not letting you plan his life throw him out of your life, that tiny mosquito is going to suck as much time, energy and money from you as it can. This mosquito will fly away and suck and other persons blood any time. If you want him as house husband go ahead and marry him and carry him over your shoulders for ever. Is it not possible to wait till you get married than to love someone and enter into a relationship and feel sorry? It is absolutely ok if you are dark skinned but healthy. Being healthy and intelligent is more important than being dark skinned. A sane person would choose a healthy life partner who can bring up the kids and take care the family over attractive one. Dont beg for love, if you beg for it is not love. It is ok to be ugly and is definetly not ok to be stupid. Watch தாய் கிழவி movie. (x5 times) You would need a man friend not a boy friend. It is ok to share the expenses 70:30 with him not your life in the same ratio. You are think of yourself in your head and what you put inside your stomach. Be an independent women buy a scooty and drive it yourself feel the freedom. But a 3 kg dumble and a skipping rope start doing the basic exercises for women. Buy something for yourself everyday. Take care are yourself than waiting for someone to take care of yourself. Go for OMAD keto or carnivore diet which is rich in fibe, protien and fat and limit your carbs to complex carbs. Have multivitamin supplements and inspecific vitamin C. Slowly drink 3 litres of water every day. Eat idly with getti chutney.

STOP trying to find Love... When the time is right... Love will find you... Till then remain focused on yourself and your self enhancement... You said you look mid or ugly... So what are you doing to improve that... Make small steps to enhance yourself every day... Anything you want... Looks... Talent... Skill ... Anything that you want... But be always the better version of yourself from yesterday... And please stop chasing people... Cause that's how people get hurt, used and abused... Have your own self-respect... If someone values you... Is respectful of your decision... And believes in marriage after the brief courtship, talking to your parents... Is focused on his goals and aspirations... Then go right ahead... Else remain focused on yourself... Hope you get all good things in life 🙂👍🏻

Girl! He is useless. Don't settle for less